So I kinda had my head resting and this coworker stops by me and says are you crying? Don’t worry everything will be okay I look up at him?

[Anonymous]

I looked up at him and say I wasn’t crying do you see me? I really wasn’t why would he say such thing

[BoopBoopBeep]

You had your head down. You were probably crying. Otherwise, what, inspecting your desk at close range? You really can't figure out why he'd say that?

[Asker]

I was just resting

[BoopBoopBeep]

Right, but that's uncommon, so he was seeing which of two uncommon scenarios was playing out.

[Asker]

Not sure why but I personally thought that was random

[BoopBoopBeep]

You walk by and someone is sleeping or crying, you're curious which.

"Oh I wonder what the cafeteria is serving today?"

I'm not going to rejoice/riot no matter the answer, but it's information I currently lack.

[Asker]

I doubt he care anyway

[BoopBoopBeep]

Maybe not. Like I said, maybe he was just curious.

[Asker]

Or nosy

[BoopBoopBeep]

Could be. Every office has one of those...

[Nice222]

He was just being concerned and caring. Guys can be that way sometimes.

[Asker]

He is married man

[Nice222]

You can still be concerned and caring while married.

[Asker]

Maybe

[Nice222]

Thank you!!

[boggboss]

Because he thought u eas crying

[Asker]

I wasn’t crying just was resting my head

[boggboss]

Thats good to know but don't change the fact he may have thought u was crying

[Asker]

And why would that affect him

[boggboss]

It didn't effect him he thought u was crying and said somthing nice to make u feel better I don't see why ir how this is so confusing lol

[Asker]

I’m not sure why it has to concern him

[boggboss]

Because thats the type of person he is

[Asker]

I guess so?

[boggboss]

Again why is this so odd for u many people are lile this

[Asker]

Trust me not
Much I’ve met over the years his the first

[boggboss]

Fair enough I have done it a few times to strangers and plenty of times at work to people I don't really speak too

[Asker]

Means he is truly a great person

[boggboss]

No just shows he has some level of empthy

[Asker]

Towards me awe

[RainBat]

Probably because you cry constantly.

[Asker]

I never cried at work

[RainBat]

Sure, that's what they *aaaaalll* say