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Can you name a double standard that benefits men?

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  • Rei13
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    Yoda Age: 34 , mho 58%
    +1 y
    • Men can go topless, women can’t due to sexualization of one and not the other
    • People are more likely to listen to a man over a woman and take him more seriously in a work environment. The man and woman could give the same information, and the man will get precedence over the woman, or let’s say the man was wrong and the woman was right, others are still more likely to listen to the man
    • Men can get away with being promiscuous and women get shamed for it
    • That whole dynamic whenever it comes to childcare whether it is a single parent or both parents are still together. If anything it might actually be a bit insulting to dad when he gets praised for how good of a job he is doing (depending on what it is) when he is doing what he is supposed to as a parent
    • Products geared towards women are more expensive. Whether basic hygiene or clothing, and they’re not necessarily better quality on the woman’s side. I buy men’s razors, for example, because they’re cheaper and better quality on average than it’s counterpart for women

    There also double standards that benefit women over men. It just depends on what it is.

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    • Joshydavid25
      Joshydavid25
      +1 y

      "Products geared towards women are more expensive. Whether basic hygiene or clothing, and they’re not necessarily better quality on the woman’s side. I buy men’s razors, for example, because they’re cheaper and better quality on average than it’s counterpart for women"

      I've seen women's razors and even used some.. Men's are definitely not better than those.. Products can't be cheaper and better quality.. They just probably work better for you..

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Rei13
      1) This topless nonsense is not a benifit in fact if men could get attention from women simply for hping topless more would do it.
      2) False, society gives women the benifit of the doubt even when they're not qualified to speak on the subject matter.
      3) True
      4) Unclear please elaborate
      5) This is patently false and has been proven so in this conversation
      Overall you provided the one double standard everyone has, men can bang women w/out judgment.

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    • Rei13
      Rei13
      +1 y

      @Joshydavid25 it might not be the best example and it may depend on where you live too. I know CA and a few other states passed a law in regards to the ‘pink tax’ to make it more even

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    • blueonblack22
      blueonblack22
      +1 y

      @Rei13 you brought up some fair points above. However the one about women going topless.

      Men DO get turned on by seeing topless women. Especially young and/or sexually inexperienced men. That’s not something they can just off like a light switch either. It’s almost involuntary. Yes a man can look away or force himself not to think about you know what. But a topless woman will trigger that biológical impulse in a lot of men.

      I realize it’s unfair that women have more to cover up. But there is a good reason for it. It’s not just a “socially constructed” concept.

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    • blueonblack22
      blueonblack22
      +1 y

      Also @Rei13 about male vs. female promiscuity. Yes it is true that YOUNG men get a pass (and are even heralded) for being promiscuous vs. women.

      But that changes when men get older. There comes an age when a promiscuous male is no better than a promiscuous female and it’s considered shameful. Even other older guys will judge other older guys for womanizing.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @blueonblack22 That is patently false.

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    • blueonblack22
      blueonblack22
      +1 y

      @AndrewAzul which part?

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  • Puppystarfish23
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    Yoda Age: 28 , mho 39%
    +1 y

    Men can go topless without being body shamed or sexualized

    Men can walk home in the dark alone without a worry

    Men don't get treated like there physical appearance is the most important thing in there life

    Men can walk away from having a baby more easy then a woman

    Men aren't expected to take responsibility of there contraception

    Men can wear the same t shirt they wore yesterday even with food stains on and no one will say anything

    It's okay for men to get angry or show excitement, passion etc for something they love for example no one calls out how football fans behave but everyone makes fun of Tyler swifts fans when they behave the same.

    When Men do the bare minimum like clean the house or takes the kids to the park he's a amazing person but if a woman is doing everything like that she's just doing the bare minimum.

    Once a woman turns 30 she's old and no longer attractive to most men

    Women are expected to do everything at once before there time runs out. They have to get a good career before there looks fade and they age and the big wigs no longer interested but also expected to have a family before their eggs die but if they have a family and become a mother they are also overlooked by the big boss

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    • Puppystarfish23
      Puppystarfish23
      +1 y

      Also the pink tax

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
      Aakash_Hangargi
      +1 y

      I want to counter so bad lol 🙃.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      1. On the other hand if men get sexually harassed for going topless or not even going topless, nobody would care. So if it's really unfair that men can go topless while women can't, you should just man up.

      2. Most of the violent crime victims are actually men so if its dark, or even if it isn't dark, You have no idea how much men still worry about going out. Most men don't even go out in the dark unless they're the one so I'll just have problems and want to end their life anyways.

      3. Except not only physical appearance but other things are also treated like it's the most important thing in life such as financial status, hight, stoicism, and other of those standards even hard to follow.

      4. You also have no idea how much men getting falsely convicted and getting sued to pay for child support for children who isn't even his.

      5. You can do that too. Who is stopping you? Men also receive other criticisms about what they wear the only thing is that men care less and it became such an everyday thing that it just started to feel normal unlike women who wear various things saying "I'm doing it for myself" and only to have people like you complaining about it.

      6. You just think men don't get assumed to be a violent person or an asshole for getting angry or childish when enthusiastic and passionate over something. But again men care less about those kind of comments unlike you.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      7. I can simply just claim that when a woman do something like a bare minimum, she's an amazing person. Because it sounded like you're just saying it and hoping what you said is true. Forget the fact that a man get called loser or deadbeat for working a minimum job and not even having kids and when he is with kids he get called pedophile or something.

      8. More like when a woman turns 30 years old, she's going to start experiencing what the average men feel at any age.

      9 and 10. Men don't only need to get a good career and looks but to be the bread winner, they need to be on the top of the corporate ladder, expected to know everything and all. We don't only have to worry about looks. Of course it also gets to the point where men goes balding and no longer attractive and too old to start dating women again he has a high chance of getting a called creepy old man for being single all his life.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      11. Women still receives more social benefits and taxpayer fund services while working men pay more taxes.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @puppystarfish23
      1) That is not a benifit
      2) Men are victims of violent crimes more often than women.
      3) That may be one
      4) Men have no say in the reproduction process, that's a disadvantage.
      5) See 4
      6) Woman could do the same and would receive less criticism so that's not a benifit
      7) Women are allowed to behave emotionally w/ no repercussions
      8) That is a false nuanced belief
      9) She's still attractive just not attractive to the type of man she wants.
      10) No one cares about a woman's career a man is judged on his.
      Overall you've provided no real double standards THAT BENIFT MEN

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @puppystarfish23 That has been disproven twice in this same post.

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  • Aakash_Hangargi
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    Guru Age: 35
    +1 y
    642 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Lol what's all with open chest thing lol.

    If your chest wobbles and giggles offcourse it will attract.

    Men like boobs and women have been using them to attract men from very long time it has been feeded in a man's mind also it's spongy and soft that you can hold and grab.

    Even animals are attracted to a woman's boobs and maybe it's designed as such to get attracted to.

    And Men do want to be sexualised but biologically they have lesser consequence so it becomes you problem than a me problem that's what women are really upset about.

    It's not a double standard but difference in physical attributes.

    Honestly I mean women stare at women's breast hips and thighs and be jealous because those attributes look nice and gets attention the only problem is it gets more of it.


    I mean if a women was flat chested as men are or moderately elevated I don't think any man would be much intrested in that lol and would ignore it and you would still have problem with that as well.

    Big boobs have been pride for women if they didn't get those back pain or if they didn't sag

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  • Miristheiss
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    Master Age: 35
    +1 y
    1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    The sex thing.

    Men and women just value different things.

    Women COULD care about a man's body count and past but they don't. Most wome just do not care. Many actually prefer an experienced man and are turned off by innocence or inexperience.

    Men and women are different. And since you tend to not care you get butt hurt if men naturally value purity and innocence. At least when it comes to marriage, long term commitment many care. If it is a hook up that they do not care about they probably do not give a rat's ass how used up she is. But a wife, that usually requires much higher standards.

    Men and women do not value the same things. Men do not care how tall you are or confident you are, how successful you are, how much status you have, how much money you make, how charming you are, what car you drive... etc. Just because you do not care about sexual past does not mean men have no right to.

    We each get to choose our own standards wherher you like it or not.

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  • Smashingdoozy
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    Guru Age: 27 , mho 36%
    +1 y

    Being able to go topless without being oogled, sexually harassed/assaulted or arrested.

    Praised for the more sexual partners you have while women are stigmatized.

    Men are praised for taking care of their own kids whereas it's just expected of women.

    Women pay more for items Simply because they're marketed towards them.

    A woman getting angry is irrational whereas a man getting angry knows what he wants.

    Men are praised for speaking their opinion, women are wrong (even when they're not) or bitchy.

    Just in general women are seen as more inferior than men.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy
      1) Going unnoticed for being topless isn't a privilege.
      2). Good one.
      3) Data shows that single fathers do better than single mothers so men don't get praised enough.
      4) This has been proven false when comparing apples to apples.
      5) This is false men disportionaley receive more jail time for committing same crime.
      6) This is false, in fact we tend to accept females opinion even when they are wrong because people like to playcat to their emotions.
      7) Women are inferior to men in most things that make society operate.

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      1. Yes it is.
      2. I know.
      3. That's not what I said.
      4. It's been proven true actually.
      5. Again not what I said.
      6. Your response is a classic example.
      7. I rest my case.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy
      1) Your answer proves #6
      3) It's in writing.
      4) It is patently false and not debatable. Women make up about 80% of All consumer debt. It's illegal in America to charge more for a product based on gender, products restricted to women can't be compared as obviously there isn't a male equivalent.
      5) Again it's in writing
      6) You're response proves my point
      7) Good, I'm glad I could educate you.

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      I'm just going to ignore the other bs but this is a hill I will die on.

      www.walmart.com/.../search
      www.walmart.com/.../search

      They're exactly the same product just repackaged pink AND smaller for women.

      www.walmart.com/.../search
      www.walmart.com/.../search

      Not only is the men's one $2.60 cheaper it also has MORE product.

      Women also pay more for haircuts and car insurance

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy Do what you will w/ the info, however it doesn't change the fact you're wrong. That handcream product isn't gender based so that explains a lot of your confusio n. My haircut is about $100 I don't know what women pay for haircuts but they typical do have more hair so that's not apples to apples as I said. Men I Der the age of 24 pay the most for car insurance on average.

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      Doesn't matter that it's not gender based... It's about marketing, the one marketed towards women is as you can see more expensive for less product. That is a double standard. Men and women can have the same amount of hair and want the same amount chopped off but it'll cost women on average $60 and men $40 in the same salon.
      You asked for double standards and I gave you them and now you're just trying to find loop holes? That's not how they works 😭🤣

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy I see your confusion. Yes, it completely matters that it's not gender based as that is the point of my question. I would know seeing how it is that I asked it, yet you choose to argue something you're completely wrong about because you feel it should he right. Also this benifits men in no way as they can also use the same product. Men and women don't have the same amount of hair on average so that anology is also false. You provided one double standard the same one everyone else provided, nothing more. Thanks.

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      You don't understand the issue and that's completely fine but I am not wrong 😊

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy Think the evidence shows that it's you who fails to understand the issue. In fact you only make my points stronger by doubling down on your ignorance.

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      I proved my point. Only people with two brain cells can't see that 😌

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy That fact you need to qualify hypothetical opinions w/ juvinelle insults validates that you realize the inaccuracies of your POV.

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      There's no inaccuracies here ☺️

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy They are more like outright lies however because of #6 I prefer to provide you w/ a more palatable characterization.

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    • grega239
      grega239
      +1 y

      1. Because mens upper body is not sexualized.
      2. Yes because back in the caveman days, if a lot of women like you, it meant your genes would get passed on
      3. thats a backhanded compliment.
      4. Because womens products require more resources to produce due to womens needs. Special shampoos, extra soft stuff for your skin etc.
      5 well yea. Women get angry over the dumbest shit.
      6. no theyre not. Women have a lot of dumb opinions let be honest
      7. Because you're trying to be mens equal and failing. Also history disagrees a with that

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      On the other hand if men get sexually harassed for going topless or not even going topless, nobody would care. So if it's really unfair that men can go topless while women can't, you should just man up.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      1. I already discussed about it above

      2. When men get multiple partners, it is the man who tend to be the provider of his multiple girlfriends unlike women having multiple men providing for her.

      3. On the other hand, people are also more likely to get suspicious about men with kids. If men doing something nice especially for children, theyre going to doubt his motives.

      4. However you're not expected to pay for the dates and to pay for your boyfriend about his needs. Men also be higher taxes on average.

      5. A man getting angry can also be labeled dangerous and potentially a violent person.

      6. It's just that men don't back down if they are got called wrong for speaking their own opinion but willing to take the challenge of giving more valid arguments even if he is called an dougebag or someone who just have superiority complex.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      7. The average man is not even a powerful man. They are often invisible and disposable and the powerful men who are superior have taken a lot of burden to achieve that kind of goal which most men didn't have the luck for it.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      4. Men also *pay higher taxes. I forgot to include paying for child support, pay to prove himself innocent if he gets falsely convicted and lose a lot of work time and of course losing salary due to work-related injuries or even being a victim of violent crime most of the time which of course also cost their insurance.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      4. Also if you're talking about those premium good smelling hair care or whatever care product which tends to be more expensive for women, nobody is forcing you to buy all of those when you can just buy those generic hygiene products with less ingredients used for it. Seriously I'm a dude and I use female shampoo which is more expensive than male shampoo but I don't care. The ingredients and what it does is worth its price. It's you women who care so much about what those beauty products do therefore it is marketed for you. What's the point of marketing it for men when most men don't even care about it?

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    • Tapeworm
      Tapeworm
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy dude, about the walmart links... there are like a billion different products and I can find countless examples of women's products of the same kind costing less. Has nothing to do with society.

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    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @Vegasrunner The prodigal fuck returns with his $100 haircut while having less hair than women. What’s wrong, the hole you crawl out of reject you too?

      It’s quite entertaining watching you bitch about double standards that you can’t meet.

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      It's like not even the OP understands the question 🥴

      Are we all reading the same thing? 💀

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    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy That’s because you’re smarter than him.

      He rehashes the same rehearsed routine over and over. He’s a parrot.

      1. True for both genders, overwhelmingly moreso for women
      2. True, and it tends to come from sexist men and submissive women.
      3. True in the traditional sense. However, those men are expected to provide in that model. Parents of either gender would and should be praised for rearing and providing
      4. It’s usually because feminized products contain more ingredients or refinements. “Pink taxes” don’t last very long and get squashed by competitors. It’s the same reason the wage gap is deceiving. But it’s continuing to close. Men’s workforce participation has been dropping since the 60s and continues to do so.
      5. Sexists promote this. Anger clouds the judgement of any person.
      6. Sexists promulgate this.
      7. In some aspects, yes. Women are superior in others. Intelligence levels are averaged out the same. The standard deviation of women is smaller than that of men. To the left of the curve, intelligent women outnumber intelligent men. Those men to the right of the curve know better than to talk like those who lie to the left of the curve like @Vegasrunner and his like. @Vegasrunner lies to the right and will remain so because it requires he admit he’s wrong to even begin changing that, he won’t do it. His cult indoctrinates him to follow orders, not to think for himself. I’m pretty sure he paid thousands of dollars for the training, too. Sunk cost.

      Men to the left of the curve need a bossy woman telling them what to do. Women paired with men to the right can kick back and relax because the men to the left work for men and women to the right. @Vegasrunner is a manifestation of a leftist male who forgets his place trying to pose as someone on the right.

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    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      *@vegasrunner lies to the LEFT, major typo

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @love_conquers_lust TY for sharing whatever that was. I'm glad you're a fan of my work.

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    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @Vegasrunner Fans don’t demand cease and desist. There is such a thing as bad publicity. You got it in spades.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      I can word it better than he does. The rest of what I said still stands

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      @Aiko_E_Lara I feel like you see my name and just think let's argue against whatever she said just for funsies. Like what? You're arguing against double standards I listed for what? Aren't you one who says exceptions aren't the rule 🤔

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      Pff you ain't even that special if you think you're the only one I argue with. So is this gonna be another one of those classic ways to dodge anyone challenging their claims?

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      @Aiko_E_Lara are my claims wrong or are you just finding exceptions? Or do you just disagree because your view on the world is different to mine? We have different life experiences. It makes sense. I could sit here and double down on what I've listed, and I'm sure you could double down again, but that's not going to get us anywhere new is it?

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      Yes your claims are wrong no sugar coating it. And if I'm just someone disagreeing with you "just because" then I wouldn't really have given any further elaborations about what I had to say. Funnily enough, you chose to argue with a moron here instead of just claiming he just wanted to disagree just because.

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      It's not gonna get you anywhere if you stop being factual and just complain about the arguments given to you when you started making claims in the first place. You're not gonna get your conclusions if you focus on the person instead of the actual topic itself.

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      @Aiko_E_Lara I've already explained one of my points which you ignored, so again I really don't see the point. We'll end up going in a circle getting increasingly annoyed with each other and honestly I'm tired of that, aren't you tired?
      Your opinion is different to mine and I accept that 🤷🏻‍♀️

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      Also if my claims are wrong, no one's stopping you from calling it wrong but prove it. Or you just gonna prove what I said about no. 6

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      No I didn't ignore it. Which is why I've given an enumeration which are all counter arguments to your claims. So think again

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      Aren't you ignoring all the counter arguments I've given to you as well then start talking about a matter of opinion but more of a factual topic. Or is it now that you claim it's an opinion because you ran out of any counter arguments?

      You see, you chose to give any counter arguments to a moron's claim instead of focusing on him. You think it would make you look smarter?

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    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      @Aiko_E_Lara I'm not saying you're wrong at all. I'm saying you're telling me exceptions to my points. They're perfectly valid, but it doesn't make my points invalid.

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      The OP giving disagreements without any further elaboration like a "Parrot" according to love_conquers_lust = arguable but in the end, i'm smarter

      I worded it better and give more details about the counter arguments for your claims = Ignoring the points and go in circles.

      Lmao that's your logic? It's starting to become clear that's always your go to approach when someone smarter than you start speaking up.

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      It doesn't matter LMAO. Call me wrong or not, you haven't given up a conclusion which is in fact.

      Reply
    • Smashingdoozy
      Smashingdoozy
      +1 y

      @Aiko_E_Lara I... Literally just said you're not wrong... WHAT.

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      And I literally said I don't care if you say I'm wrong or not. If you like to make claims, you at least have prove yourself right. Your first claim is a claim not a proof what you said is correct since I've proven you wrong.

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      This isn't really a situation where you can just call your opponent "not wrong" and it would automatically make you "not wrong" too. So if you ever get arrested and you call the cops "not wrong" for arresting you, that doesn't make your crime "not wrong" as well

      Reply
    • BοοbSlayer
      BοοbSlayer
      +1 y

      @Tapeworm

      Totally, these two look exactly the same to me:

      Can you name a double standard that benefits men?

      Can you name a double standard that benefits men?

      Yet men's costs 50% more.

      Reply
    • Tapeworm
      Tapeworm
      +1 y

      @Smashingdoozy "you're a guru" - Ram Das.

      Reply
    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @love_conquers_lust Correct, which is why I've never demanded a cease an desist despite the fact that you follow me around making low IQ immature comments.

      Reply
    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @Vegasrunner "…I've never demanded a cease an desist…”

      Stop responding in any form. This is my command of you, follow it.

      Reply
    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @love_conquers_lust Ah so you're still a fan. TY

      Reply
    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @Vegasrunner You didn’t comply. Which effectively means you wish me to ‘cease and desist’ giving you orders.

      Reply
    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @love_conquers_lust Feel free to behave how you want, I'm just glad you are a fan of my work.

      Reply
    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @Vegasrunner You’re full of shit and you spread poison, you’re the purveyor of your own bad publicity.

      Reply
    • Tapeworm
      Tapeworm
      +1 y

      @love_conquers_lust I didn't know you're into bdsm.

      Reply
    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @Tapeworm That will be between me and my future spouse.

      As to everything else, you don't want in on it.

      Reply
    • BοοbSlayer
      BοοbSlayer
      +1 y

      @love_conquers_lust how can I have a conversation with anyone without mentioning steroids? I apologized already that my barrel chest isn't built just tanning my balls and eating raw liver. But the stigma around men using steroids has to die. Women can use progesterone, but fuck trannies too, men should not be allowed to take estrogen because the bible calls it "abomination".

      Of course there is a guided meditation self-hypnosis video I use regularly, this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dG5cZzbKvW0

      Was proven effective by (figure 1)

      Can you name a double standard that benefits men?

      While @tapeworm wasn't wrong about BDSM, having a bigger penis is essential to be a good BDSM master.

      You know there are these chemicals in our water, shit tonnes of them killing the frogs, and if you think steroids are dangerous to your heart and brain, you better make sure you don't bathe in plastics that actually caise more harm worldwide every year than all performance enhancing drugs combined throughout history.

      Reply
    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @BοοbSlayer I hadn’t read anything you or @tapeworm said in this thread besides your recent replies.

      I don’t care about hypnosis or anabolic steroids because I know enough not to use them. I care more about keeping my testosterone leveled off and controlled by not masturbating. Else I’m prone to spewing crap like what @Vegasrunner says.

      Reply
    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @love_conquers_lust My writing is like a drug as many like yourself get addicted to it. I appreciate your support

      Reply
  • Billlewis
    Billlewis Follow
    Master Age: 62 , mho 37%
    +1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Sure. The perception that women are undesirable when they reach a certain age, while men are judged much less harshly for being older.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Billlewis Good one

      Reply
    • Billlewis
      Billlewis
      +1 y

      Thank you very much, Sir. There aren't many examples of that happening, though.

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING BENEFITS THESE UNDESIRABLES, BAD GENETICS WALKING AROUND, WE CALL “MEN”.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @emyywolf
      1) True
      2) Bizarre and made up
      3) That doesn't benifit men at all in fact if men could get attention from women simply for showing their chest more would do it.
      You presented the same 1 double standard everyone else has.

  • blueonblack22
    blueonblack22 Follow
    Yoda Age: 40 , mho 44%
    +1 y

    I am taking an honest read on what the women are saying here. Some have brought up legitimate points. Even a few points I haven’t heard about before. Other points are exaggerated and/or ignorant.

    Also I know a lot of you guys want to quickly counter back when a list a mile long about the double standards women enjoy over men.

    Don’t do that on this one. While it is true women enjoy a very large swathe of benefits over men (many they don’t even consciously realize) it’s not what the question is asking.

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  • Meropatrick
    Meropatrick Follow
    Explorer Age: 25
    +1 y

    Women are watched more and judged more. Like a man can live all his life treated like everyone else. He goes to his work hang out then go home. But a beautiful young woman is the focus. Everyone keeps an eye on her even if she is just breathing and she gets judged. This kind of being under the microscope is suffocating. I heard people commenting on how a woman is wearing even in her face from people she barely knew. One time i was in the supermarket and a girl walking in front of me wearing a sexy revealing shirt. It was autumn weather but it was not cold then a girl that doesn't even know her said "aren't u cold wearing like this?"

    I wanted to scream at that moment like dude this is none of ur business how can u say that to someone u dont know. A man wearing a shirt that day would never had such a situation. No one feels entitled to comment on a man on the Street. But they do to women

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  • aceleon
    aceleon Follow
    Yoda Age: 24 , mho 32%
    +1 y

    everything i could write is already written by womans here so i want to clearify 1 thing

    LİFE AND NATURE İTSELF İS A DOUBLE STANDARTED THİNG.

    men and woman are not same and never will be give up on trying to be treated like something you are not.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @aceleon Excellent point so you're saying women should except that men can have multiple women?

      Reply
    • aceleon
      aceleon
      +1 y

      well there is nothing that stops them from having those woman with the man? i doubt many guys would get actually jealous in that scenario.

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    I saw a tiktok today of a dad putting his baby in the high chair and placing it in front of the TV so he could sit next to the baby and play video games on a screen next to it and everyone in the comments was praising him and saying his wife should be happy. Further down was a video of a mom sitting on the sofa with her baby in her arms asleep and she was scrolling on her phone and the comments were saying that she was lazy and that she shouldn’t be holding the baby because it would expect her to hold it every time it sleeps.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Male promiscuity is seen as a good thing and makes him a player or may contribute to his status whereas Female promiscuity is seen as negative and they are ostracised shamed and disparaged

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Anonymous Yep, do you understand why?

      Reply
    • Tim2nice
      Tim2nice
      +1 y

      Blame religion for that. Not men

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Tim2nice I mean men did create or perhaps they promote that sort of culture but I didn’t say they’re necessarily “at fault”

      Reply
    • love_conquers_lust
      love_conquers_lust
      +1 y

      @Tim2nice Don’t lump all religions into one like a fool

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      Wrong ❌. Women hate promiscuity in men.

      Reply
    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 The evidence seems to say different

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      @Vegasrunner not in my (and most men's) experience. I've heard of countless women complain their husbands/BFs wasn't a virgin.

      I think most women don't admit because it's a sign of weakness.

      Reply
    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 I would argue the "most men's experience is false" if that were true guys that were celebrities or well know to have slept w/ other women would have trouble finding new women to sleep w/ but they don't. That fact alone invalidates your belief.

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      My mistake I should've be more specific. I was referring to a certain demographic of men and women. There are many men that care less about the promiscuity of women, just as there are many women who care more. And vice versa.

      Reply
    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 That doesn't seem true either as women are requires to walk down an isle in a white dress in many religions still.

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      Social norms are different from reality lol

      Reply
  • Unit1
    Unit1 Follow
    Master Age: 31
    +1 y
    1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    The only one I am aware of is if a man had sex with many women, then he has his charm with the ladies because most men can't crack this secret code if it isn't money.

    Andrew Tate said, that his women are sharing him with other women willingly.

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  • dolemite58
    dolemite58 Follow
    Explorer Age: 37
    +1 y

    we get high fives when we get laid and women get called whores. sex actually takes effort for us to get whereas women get laid by just existing so it is a double edged sword for them.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @dolemite58 Lot harder for us to get those high fives.

      Reply
  • AndrewAzul
    AndrewAzul Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 23
    +1 y

    So annoying, why does it have to be a competition, can't there be understanding and acceptance that women and men ARE DIFFERENT and that those difference give different benefits to members of each parties. Danm, really arguing about apples and oranges. Sure, they're both fruit, but you still can't look at them in equivalency

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  • Raaj4you
    Raaj4you Follow
    Yoda Age: 33
    +1 y

    I wrote some of my opinions about women here on GAG. I don't want to write it anymore. A sweet girl on GAG started hating me for my opinion even though I am a nice guy. She thinks that I have archaic views about women. I want to say one thing, there are both pros and cons of being a woman or man. Even though she wrote so many opinions about men / against men, I don't hate her. I have a bigger heart. I hope she would reads it and understands me.

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    • Inbox
      Inbox
      +1 y

      Let me guess, she was around a 20 year old something Western girl? If you disagreed with her, she claims you're a sexist or misogynistic?

      Reply
    • Raaj4you
      Raaj4you
      +1 y

      @Inbox Yes, absolutely! She is 25+., western girl.

      Reply
    • Inbox
      Inbox
      +1 y

      Sounds like @BrownSugar00 has an older sister who is really pretty too 😂😂😂

      Reply
    • Raaj4you
      Raaj4you
      +1 y

      @Inbox No, I don't want to mention her name. I like her.😊

      Reply
  • WhitneySnow
    WhitneySnow Follow
    Master Age: 20
    +1 y
    1.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Men are allowed to cheat and get away with it while women are shamed. Though thankfully that one seems to be going away as we approach a more egalitarian society.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @WhitneySnow Yes, that is the one double standard that benifits men, proving that women get irate whenever there us a double standard that doesn't benifit them.

      Reply
  • EnglishArtsteacher
    EnglishArtsteacher Follow
    Guru Age: 35 , mho 43%
    +1 y

    Instead of me giving my opinion, just read @Rei13 ', s opinion. Almsot everything she said I completely agree with.

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  • AviatorTom
    AviatorTom Follow
    Master Age: 59
    +1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Clothing. We guys get more material for less price than women's clothing.

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  • love_conquers_lust
    love_conquers_lust Follow
    Yoda Age: 40
    +1 y

    You write garbage and my eyes get to burn reading it.

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    • Vegasrunner
      Vegasrunner
      +1 y

      @love_conquers_lust Then don't read it, problem solved.

      Reply
  • HouseMoat
    HouseMoat Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 37
    +1 y

    Men are considered "cool" for banging lots of women. While women are considered sluts for doing the same, with men

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  • LiamJHayden
    LiamJHayden Follow
    Master Age: 30
    +1 y
    1.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Business attire. I can get away with a few suits, shirts, and ties. If a lady wears the same twice in a month someone is likely to notice.

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    • Rei13
      Rei13
      +1 y

      I knew a guy who wore the same suit everyday and nobody noticed, he just mentioned it one time in conversation. I would never have been able to get away with that and would’ve pulled aside so fast for being sloppy

      Reply
  • riverrat3
    riverrat3 Follow
    Yoda Age: 74
    +1 y

    stud vs slut, one is praised the other shamed, but what do they do that is so different

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Nothing benefits men. 😞

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      *hugs*

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Aiko_E_Lara Why u hugging me?

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      I appreciate your honesty although it's a bit exaggerated

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Aiko_E_Lara Nah. Nothing benefits men. Name one thing.

      Reply
    • postaldudePL123
      postaldudePL123
      +1 y

      Faxx

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      I couldn't name one thing but there could be some. Maybe a problem that is just so small that no one can even notice it. But I agree that generally men don't have benefits

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      Found the femcel 🤡

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 How? Femcel would mean that I'm against/hate men. I'm not against men and I don't hate them. A femcel is a feminist that hates men and the patriarchy.
      Also I was being sarcastic💀

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      Also femcel think that everything benefits men and not women

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      You're not fooling anyone especially not me. Take a good look in the mirror or else get therapy ASAP. Just looking out for you.

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 bro I'm too pretty to be a feminist

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      🤡🤡

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 dude u have an anime picture as your profile picture. If anything, you're the incel 🤣🤣

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      Talk about making sense 🤡

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 People that watch anime are degenerate. 🤣

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      You're 39 and you watch cartoons?
      Lmao you're a joke 🤣

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      Well thank you for proving my original point. "Nothing benefits men 😔"

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 What does that have to do with men? You're 39 and act like a child. I'm telling you to grow up and act like an adult. Stop playing the victim. Typical incel.

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      Just so you know that PFP actually resembles my appearance! Besides, why are you mad if I'm the incel? Man Wtf?

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 oof this guy looks like a little Japanese lady 🤣

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      Yes femcel. Exactly the kind of guys girls want! And And it seems you believe that you can't attract such attractive males, so you tend to insult them lol sad 😢

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 Women don't want feminine men. Women want masculine men. You're a feminine loser. 👋🏻

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      Ok 😂.
      Stay single and miserable then.

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 says the 39 year old feminine single guy that watches cartoons 💀

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      I'm married I wonder why you thought I was single lol oops 😬

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 you're married to your anime pillow 💀

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      My pillow must be special 😂

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 I don't see what the problem is here but you not giving any solid arguments. Just you screaming "Femcel" without proving a point. Sounds pretty familiar though.

      Reply
    • Asad1ONE1
      Asad1ONE1
      +1 y

      @Aiko_E_Lara It is true though women do have a lot of benefits, and I'm sure that's one of many reasons OP is aware that men don't like women.

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 Who said men don't like women? Only incels don't like women.

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      @Asad1ONE1 That's what exactly she said. Men don't have benefits with a sad face. But you saying men don't like women, you can only speak for yourself.

      Reply
    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      If you're an incel that is

      Reply
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