I told my crush that I like him and asked him to be friend but he says that he can’t be just friend with me because attracted to me sexually but he doesn't want a girlfriend then he asked me to be friends with benefits and I said no because I never did that before and I don't know how it works. Did i do the right thing? Also, is there any hope for us in future?
Well... "Friends with benefits" is basically a rotten relationship where one side is likely to have more serious feelings for the other. I'm not sure about the "friends" part, but as far as I know, the "benefits" part is the key part of this kind of relationship, and I'm not sure whether there even has to be any friendliness besides those "benefits" (knowing what our reality is like, I say there doesn't have to be any).
Thus, You've done the right thing, but it's possible that it will cost You Your crush and a heartbreak (if You are truly serious about that guy).
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Him wanting you as "Friends with Benefits" actually means he wants to use you for regular sex until he meets someone who is girlfriend material.
He is your crush you say, meaning you actually like him, so don't waste years of life being a sex doll for him to use and later discard, then you watch him parade around with his girlfriend and your heartbroken.
Accept the fact that you’ll lose lots of wonderful people on your life road.
It will hurt.
But that’s your road and you’ve gotta keep on walking on it.
Someone who wants to walk there with you, will keep up with you, get you by his side and will let you know that he isn’t going to go anywhere without you.
If he doesn’t do that, keep going.
Since you really like him, being friends with benefits with him could lead you to deeper pain and suffering. Some situations like this could turn into relationship, but it is very rare. My advice would be to save yourself and find someone who will turn the world around for you. Let them chase you.
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I think you did the correct thing. Such an intense physical connection without any devotion or commitment wiuld be very hard on the heart.
You made a good decision friends with benefits is rarely a good experience for girls.
Friends with benefits is for sluts. You did the right thing.
So he wants to use you as an object for his pleasure.
He’s a street walker
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