When should a man to direct his anger at someone? And in what way?

[Anonymous]

For clarification, I'm seeking to discern the intricacies of circumstances wherein it is considered socially acceptable for a gentleman to manifest a conspicuous externalization of ire.

And I solicit elucidation regarding the precise modalities of expression that would transgress the demarcations of your esteemed and preferred code of conduct.

[hahahmm]

In the modern western world you cannot let "society" determine what is right/wrongYou go by what our male ancestors did for thousands of years. Men discovered how best to be men without the input of feminists, soy boys, and soft people. You ever see the movie Gladiator? Imagine if Marcus only did what a committee of average people thought was good to do. He'd just be a sheep and live like the rest of them, doing absolutely nothing interesting.

Being a real man means having control of your emotions. Doing things when it is constructive to do them, not just because it feels good.

[Anonymous]

It's crucial to cultivate a range of emotional expressions beyond just anger, to prevent an unhealthy build-up of rage. Societal norms often discourage men from showing vulnerability, leading them to suppress their emotions. This suppression can result in outbursts of anger, detachment from nurturing roles, and a disengaged approach towards parenting. Such emotional bottlenecks can contribute to strained relationships, including divorces, where men might reduce their involvement to mere financial support, further distancing themselves emotionally. Emotional fluency is key to social bonding and effective leadership in relationships. Relying solely on material success, as advocated by figures like Andrew Tate, can lead to an unfulfilling life dominated by superficial values. Subtlety and variety in emotional expression are essential for a balanced and socially rich life.

[Thestupidusername]

You can communicate whats bothering you. If talking makes you anxious use texting.

[mandyfire98]

It is acceptable to get very angry if you accidentally swallow a thesaurus.

[Asker]

😆😆😆

[mandyfire98]

😁😁

[JacobJordan]

Anger? Only in times where not doing so could result in life threatening problems. Outside that never. Being stern, masculine, authoritative now that is when you need something done or when someone does something wrong AFTER being told multi times not to do it

[Worst]

Given the environment is safe, it's always fine to emote, but how you emote is important. The full on rage is probably rarely the right answer. Calm anger is still showing anger.

[Asker]

Emote 🤣

[Asker]

Bro u look emo

[Asker]

not that there's anything wrong with that

[Worst]

Quit yappin

[Asker]

I've decided to forgive you for your sins. I won't put you in this update.

[WhiteSteve]

I just couldn’t do SAT words before noon, sorry, brodie

[Billlewis]

A woman I used to serve dated a guy who had a very bad temper, and sometimes, after he'd had a stressful day, she'd encourage him to take his belt off and thoroughly tan my hide... lol

[RavVid]

I think expression of physical anger e. g. punching is too far. Yelling like a homeless person is uncool.

I'd say a louder than normal speaker voice with harsh tones is ok.

[serenalovesramen]

They should settle it in the ring like a true man would

[Staximus]

Different situations call for different reactions, and the level of offense should determine the level of anger

[msc545]

Only in a calm and deliberative fashion. No raising the voice or cursing.

[LiamJHayden]

I will go off verbally when I see someone intentionally being an ass to another. I will do so physically if absolutely necessary.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

Are you planning to take GRE or something🤣🤣?

[fuddly]

Shouting is okay

Violence is unacceptable

[_no_one_]

If a person is perpetually annoying

[Slim57]

Whenever he wants, it's how it's directed