Why does it feel I always get ghosted. Is this a normal part of dating or am I simply not good enough?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Like in one scenario they will dm me, ask for my details, speak to me for a few then then dippear

In another scenario, they will meet me go on a date, still pursue me after the date and try to arrange a second one then disappear before we meet up again. Or they’ll meet me again try to hook up then disappear.

Annoying to say the least

[ZackBan]

I sound like a broken record considering the others said it already but it's so true that it doesn't hurt to repeat.

Pick better men.

There's nothing wrong with outgrowing the dating standards of a teen looking for the romanticized bad boy. That "bad boy" will ghost you 10 times out of 10.

If you want something real and solid go find the guy who's stable in his life and knows what he wants

[elew4too]

Life happens: maybe a guy found another girl, maybe he got injured/sick, maybe he moved, gave up dating entirely, etc. Every time I’ve ever ghosted a girl, it had nothing to do with her. Letting someone down is difficult for anyone, and guys just don’t want that heat sometimes. Is it morally correct? No. . . but it’s easier.

[syncheart]

I have terrible trouble with people ghosting me. I don't have a clue what I do wrong. I try to be kind, and easy to talk to. I try to avoid anything offensive, but no matter what I do these days, people don't care to talk with me. So at least you make it the dating stage.

[MrCommodore]

Your selection process needs to be adapted, that would change the quality of guys you're getting

[spartan55]

Again, you need to adjust your standards. As long as you keep gettng with douchebags this is the shit that will happen.

[Sparkie460]

I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. When guys decide that a woman isn't for them, for whatever reason, they are cowards and can't tell the woman it's over so they ghost them.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

A few of those times their was an ex or another partner in the picture maybe those times I didn’t get an explanation that was the case too..

[Anonymous]

When you say "try to arrange a second date and then disappear" how does that actually go? Like they reach out to arrange a second date but you don't agree to it? Is that what you mean by "try to arrange a second date?"

[DextroShade]

You are likely giving off "recreational use only" vibes and then when you don't put out they bounce because that's all they wanted from you.

[Slim57]

Because people have too many options nowadays, it's not necessarily you're not good enough, they just found someone else they preferred, or maybe you weren't adding much to the conversation

[OddBeMe]

Huh. Either you don’t put out or something about your second date convo really scares them.

[shortster]

I think so. Most people ghost me.

[Bklynbadboy12]

There intimidated by you

[Techrescueff]

I wouldn't ghost you