Is it true that guys are kind rejectors?

[Anonymous]

I mean…looking for a boyfriend have no real way of meeting people.

Sometimes I notice I’ll get stares I’ll be walking next to the water and some guy will be looking at me and smiling and I’ll instantly look away.

How do I actually talk to these people?

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What do guys look for in girls/women?

[DarkWinterNights]

I don’t know about “kind”. But I’ve seen some women get a type of power trip with their rejections of guys. Most guys have had embarrassing rejections, so I feel like they would be fairly empathetic. Personally, as long as I was even mildly attracted to a girl who had the guts to ask me out, I’d probably at least go on a date.



The reality is you don’t even have to start by asking guys out. Just smile, walk up, introduce yourself and make some small talk. So many guys just need a halfway reliable indicator that the attraction is mutual.

[Billlewis]

To some extent, yes. Ironically, it's the viciousness with which many women reject guys who are trying to date them that's so perversely exciting for wimps like me who never have intercourse with these lovely vixens. It's almost instinctive for me to be as polite and courteous as possible whenever I have to give a woman some bad news, but when the situation is reversed, I fully expect her to ridicule me with alacrity, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't. Those guys only care about sex. They view you as a sex object. It would be best if you avoided them at all costs. Cause you know men only want one thing.

[Asker]

You got that from them looking at me and smiling?

This guy seemed younger than me.

[Pohjolan]

I suppose. Its so rare for a gal to actually make a move that its not insignificant to a guy even if he isn't interested.

(Basic socialising isn't making a move.)

[Asker]

What do guys look for in girls

[Pohjolan]

Guys are different looking for different thing but here's some pointers:
+ Be authentic. No one likes a fake you in the long run.
+ Eat healthy.
+ Sleep at least 8 hours a night.
+ Do some sport you like regularly.
+ Have long hair and take care of it.
+ Read some books that broaden your knowledge of perspective like say "Cry only for the living".
+ Know how to cook.
+ Keep your place tidy.
+ Take care of your skin and teeth.

Also men are simple creatures. You can just give one a well made sandwich and they will be thrilled.