We parted ways as I changed my job, he said "you know where I am", but hasn't called or texted. Should I call?

[Anonymous]

We used to date... but I changed my job.. now he is barely texting nor calling, although he promised to call last Friday. He hasn't reached out yet.

He said "you know where I am"? Meaning that he is still working at the same place so I can visit him.

I don't feel like I should.

What do you think?

[MarkDown]

Did changing jobs involve moving or some other change that would interfere with my you seeing each other? I'm not trying to be to intrusive, just trying to determine why that was the cause of him wanting to break up with you.

The "you know where I am" line seems to indicate he is leaving contact up to you.

[bobalife]

It’s like telling someone you know how or where to reach them. Why did he ended things? Maybe he’s also waiting for you to make the move or give some signs? Sometimes, I think we just don’t realize those things…

[itsJay]

Who broke up with who?

[Asker]

Well, basically we broke up two months before I changed my job... but we remained the same... he still behaved like a boyfriend

[itsJay]

But, who suggested the break up?

[Asker]

It was him