Had a great date with a guy ended up having sex then all of a sudden he has to go meet his friend for couple hours at the gym?

[Emorgan]

After me suggesting can I stay at his for the night and he says you can on Wednesday instead

[Gigerpimp]

Ok well the whole thing about u can wensday means u have hope he basically set another date he's done a few things here he's basically locking in the fact he's going to get a few more rounds in with u wensday as well as keeping u on the hook also saying it's not a bad thing I that u can't stay tonight he may of really had to go he may have forgot wile with u then remembered after u were done or wans to go stretch after his workout on top of u 😉 😆 they say it's the best workout just saying I wouldn't think much of it thill wensday if he let's u stay then u probably have nothing to worry about but if there's an issue when wensday come thats another story u will have to keep us posted on what happens kinda curious now and feel free to ask any other questions u may have my dm is always open

[Emorgan]

So far I haven’t heard from him today yet

[Gigerpimp]

Well what time is it there?

[Emorgan]

12:20pm

[Gigerpimp]

And nothing all day today? What day of the week is it there?

[Emorgan]

Tuesday

[Gigerpimp]

Ok so tomorrow is the big day what do u have planned? And u could message him and ask like what time and where do u want to meet like maybe get a bit to eat first 🤔

[Emorgan]

I’ve got nm planned and he hasn’t answered my last message still on delivered can’t exactly text again

[Gigerpimp]

What was the last message?

[Gigerpimp]

U can dm Mr if ur not comfortable saying in public

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yeah so... is there an officer here problem?

She got some dick didn't she? ... guess she wanted to snuggle too.

[Anonymous]

I was 15. I was dating an older boy about 20. One day while u was waiting for him to come home from work his father walked into his room with an enormous erection. I was shocked and aroused because it was huge compared to my boyfriend's who I now realise was tiny. Anyway I gave him a bj and was turned on I came while grinding on a pillow

[fantasticass]

Did you have sex on your first date? If so, why would you do that? You have set yourself up for failure if you did.

[lightbulb27]

Went too fast. Give him few days to snap out of it

[Finchie40]

That’s a red flag for sure , especially after having sex with you? to me it sounds like his so called friend , he had to go see all of a sudden , is another girl. Because When a guy really likes a girl , he prioritizes her over his friends , especially if she asks if she can stay over. Me personally would tell my friend that I would see them another night , because I am with a girl that I really like. So this definitely sounds shady to be honest with you

[Emorgan]

Yea that’s what I was thinking he texted me not to long after he left a snap of him in his room on the computer so idek

[Finchie40]

Well if he is communicating with you over snap instead of texting you with his actual phone number , then he is definitely up to no good , Snapchat is designed for people to keep secrets from each other , Cheating is one of them. He probably has a girlfriend already that doesn’t satisfy him in bed , he used you for sex and will continue using you for sex

[RebelinSteel]

That’s terrible, really sounds like he had some other arranged plans and you were an added extra. If you don’t hear from him for a bit then that’s likely the case

[BigBootyKay]

That’s so messed up! I’m sorry that happened to you

[Emorgan]

I’m starting to think he had plans with a girl today hints why I couldn’t stay last night

[BigBootyKay]

@Emorgan that’s messed up

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[PessicaJeter]

Sounds like unfortunately, to this guy, it wasn't more than a hookup. 🙁

[Booklover_90]

You may have seen it as a great date. He could’ve seen as just a hookup.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The gym thing isn't strange, but rejecting you staying over after having sex is a red flag, as is having sex so early.

[serious_miss419]

He’s self centred.
You’ll have to wait around for him to snap out of anything. He’s not a good communicator.

[sheikalana]

I guess you had sex with him way too early.

[Veenice]

Maybe you made him nervous, in a good way... so he's hot to prep and be better ready for you ;)

[exitseven]

This guy must be in good shape. He can workout for two hours after sex.

[Tim2nice]

There’s nothing better than meeting friends after a session

[Squatting_Slav]

He's got plans and things to do which is good. Take it easy and slow, there's a date booked for Wednesday.

[Jhonrembo36]

This is definitely not a good sign🤔🤷🏻‍♂️.

[Emorgan]

what sign is it

[Jhonrembo36]

Of course, it does not require that this is the sign, but many times it is a sign that the guy was just looking to get laid and not looking for a serious relationship.

[Emorgan]

Yea but y would he keep my ring on his car keys if he wants me to move on or want nm from me

[Jhonrembo36]

This is definitely a good sign. It could be that he had to meet with them for something urgent or that he is not a serious guy and is just a player

[Emorgan]

He does one thing and says another I’m confused and he won’t communicate

[Jhonrembo36]

Maybe he realized that he slept with you that now the relationship is more binding and he is not sure that this is what he is looking for. Or is it a way to get out of it in a supposedly respectable way.

[Emorgan]

See he’s an ex so I don’t know

[Jhonrembo36]

He is your ex🤔?

[Emorgan]

Yes he is

[Jhonrembo36]

So it's completely different. Maybe he really is just confused. There is a high chance that he will come back to you. I saw your picture now so the chance increases even more.🤔😂

[Emorgan]

Before we met up up yesterday texting me back like crazy then after what happened prolonged texts be hours before I hear anything but he active

[Jhonrembo36]

Just wait and it’s be ok 👌

[Emorgan]

Also noticed he was on tinder when he was flicking through his phone

[Jhonrembo36]

So he really look for sex🤔😂

[Emorgan]

If only those words come out of his mouth

[Jhonrembo36]

So what you would do if he told you that?

[Emorgan]

No idea but least I’ll know where I stand

[Jhonrembo36]

I have the feeling that you still love him 🤔

[Emorgan]

I do and he knows it but I rather know wats happening to know there’s a chance or move on

[Jhonrembo36]

I really hope for you that he will feel the same as you. 🙏🏻

[Emorgan]

By the way he acting I doubt it

[QuietRunner]

yes, give him some time.

Gym schedule is important as it is a routine.

You're new, so let him build time for you

[Emorgan]

We’ve been on and off for months

[QuietRunner]

well that is different.

He is just using you for sex and wanting to fell good with someone for certain times.

He make actually like you, but is confused about his feelings or doesn't want to get hurt like before in the past if he was

[Emorgan]

Yea he says he likes me a lot but then he goes through these periods where he ghosts me hoping I move on but then feels bad about not texting and then texts me and then feels bad about texting me 🤷🏻‍♀️

[zeitgeist057]

Ok that's some more info, it sounds to me like you are a side chick. He's not that into you, he doesn't want you for a main girlfriend, but you're always there and available, so when he wants to have sex with a cute girl, he thinks of you and you show up and have sex with him. Once that's done, he wants to get on with the rest of his life (go to the gym, hang with friends, have a date with another girl) and say bye until he's ready to use you again.

If that's okay with you, and you are getting something out of it, then keep doing what you are doing. If not, then you might want to make another plan.

[zeitgeist057]

ps i followed and tried to dm you @emorgan but it didn't work. Can you follow and DM me?

[zeitgeist057]

if you want to talk, that is

[ethansf]

I don't believe people should have sex before marriage. This is a good example as to why.

[LiamS95]

You're so very beautiful.

[zeitgeist057]

she really is <3

[LiamS95]

@zeitgeist057 dhe most definitely is gorgeous 😍

[Emorgan]

Awww you guys lol

[LiamS95]

Mmmmm... you're very beautiful

[Staximus]

So what is the question

[Dassmen]

I think he used you just for sex.

[Emorgan]

He said he wasn’t planning on having sex

[Dassmen]

Then he might lie to you or something

[Emorgan]

Even if he bought me a gift

[Dassmen]

I don't know then. But igot female friends who has been use just for fuck

[Emorgan]

It’s ok we can both be confused together lol but prob was being used

[Dassmen]

Lets see if he gonna see you next time.

[BloodCursedDeviant]

How are you feeling now?

[jjj101010]

Did u stay on Wednesday in the end?

[Emorgan]

No he has ignored my messages never heard or seen him

[jjj101010]

Did u know him for long before u went on the date?

[Emorgan]

He’s an ex on and off for the last few months

[jjj101010]

So not a first date? Does he does this a lot?

[Emorgan]

This is the first time he ever really did this but he has been going through a ghosting period with me recently one min all for talking then he disappears cause he doesn’t know

[jjj101010]

Hmm, sounds like it would be best to cut ur losses. Followed by the way. Follow back?

[Hotboy_booblover]

Lucky guy...
U r beautiful