One minute he said we could be friends without having sex, then the next minute he said we couldn't be just friends?

[Candykanelove]

One minute my friends with benefits told me it was okay to date other men because I deserved to be happy. (I told him I started dating someone else). Then the next month he told me we couldn't just "be friends" especially because of a letter I sent him. I really don't understand why he switched up like this? He made it seem like it was ok if I dated someone else.

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3 mo

He also made a comment about how he knew he could get me back, if I decided to be with someone else.

[glennos89]

I think you hurt his feelings with dating someone else

[Candykanelove]

Why would his feelings be hurt when he and I are just friends?

[glennos89]

Are you absolutely sure he doesn't have feelings for you?🧐

[Candykanelove]

I honestly don't know.

[glennos89]

I know 🤷🏼‍♂️

[DextroShade]

Men are not your friends, we only associate with you because we want to smash.

[laly520]

he just wants sex

[Candykanelove]

That wasn't the question.

[laly520]

its the answer to why he is switching up

[Candykanelove]

@thbnnnb Go away troll.

[Candykanelove]

What you're saying makes no sense I told him I was dating other men and he was ok with it and he told me to just let him know if I started sleeping with other men. And that he and I could be just friends without sex. Then the next month he told me that he and I couldn't be just friends.

[laly520]

it makes perfect sense
being friends with him according to him is being friends without sex
next time he said u two can't be friends which means having sex is now a possibility

[Candykanelove]

You didn't understand the question properly.