Is this common behaviour in men who experience difficulty in finding a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

These unattractive men hit on every female in their friend groups, regardless of whether or not they’re their type? I’ve experienced this in my group of friends. I knew that I only really appealed to one of them. But the rest saw myself as fair game, being female and attractive, even if not at all their type as more than mates. How common is this?

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3 mo

I know for a fact that these guys don’t like me that way. I’m big, loud, white and large breasted, curvy. They like soft spoken, really girly, feminine, Asian and Eurasian women.

[Squatting_Slav]

I think it's Just behaviour of horny men in my opinion which is most who don't see past hookups to point of valued friendship

[boggboss]

Issue is many guys don't see or value the friendships with women

[boggboss]

So they would decline if u offered them sex?

[Asker]

So, maybe, they don’t respect their female mates as much as their guy mates?

[aceleon]

sorry to break it to you dude but of course we don't see girls as a friendsince there are guys out there to fill that spot, only friendship with a girl that ever done good for me was when they played the matchmaker for me with other girls.

[Asker]

I think they’d decline.

[boggboss]

Well they wouldn't really truly see u as a mate in my opinion

[Asker]

I know I would, if any of them tried to seduce me! No thanks, matey!

[boggboss]

I dont think that's true and no many guys do make platonic friendships with women I have a few that I have no sexual or relationship intrest in

[boggboss]

Thats what I mean tho how u view them is not the same as how they view you

[Asker]

Possibly not, but ewww!

[boggboss]

If they are openly flirting with u inside of the group I'm pretty sure that's how they view it as the other guy showed many men don't see value in friendships with women

[boggboss]

If they ain't attracted to you vut ain't getting sex elsewhere but are willing to flirt with u hands down they would fuck u if it was a option

[Asker]

Yucky yuck chops.

[boggboss]

I'm suprised u are working this out now but yeah sorry about that mate

[Asker]

Oh well 😊. You’ve upset my stomach thinking about them fucking me…lol…made me feel nauseous and burp a few times lol. If they were the last men on earth, I’m bisexual, so I’d just go and bat for the other side.

[boggboss]

Thats fair enough at least better you know then not lol

[Asker]

Lol yeah always good to know how frequently up and ready The Almighty is.

[Asker]

I think they also saw me as the low hanging fruit that they were entitled to, as I started off fat and plain (but not anymore).

[Anonymous]

I guess they have to keep trying the numbers and eventually someone will date them

[slatyb]

Unfortunately it's fairly common.