How do you tell if a man you want to date or marry is likely to cheat?

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I’ve been asked out by really hot guys that I didn’t know were using me as their mistress when I was younger. What are indicators that someone is likely to cheat on you? I’m Autistic and I’m somewhat naive, beyond knowing the wedding ring/groove or being unavailable on usual dating nights. Many of these guys were really sneaky. Is it a mistake to date the really handsome ones? Can none of them control themselves?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Every woman in history has that question and the answer is its not easy and will only get harder with time.

Wise women and cultures learned to require some form of evidence worthiness and commitment to be paid up front before offering him anything. Thus No sex before marriage, and demonstrate you can provide thereafter.

The traditional dating process with a man courting a woman, paying, buying her from her father, social and legal bounds of marriage, etc... is really about binding him and his resources to her children and her.

Men of power have likewise long sought to break such rules and be playboys for the very reason others have sighted, it advantages them personally even if it costs the woman and sociality as a whole.

Unfortunately they finally succeeded in the west around the 1960's when they assumed near tottal control of information and had with birth control the means the promus women equality. Sociality and countless women in the decades since however was torn apart and destroyed regardless. Both for want of fathers and want of children.

Demographically and culturally speaking soon enough the same western cultures once dominant over the earth will be gone from this earth as as a result.

Slapmynuts · Accepted Answer

You honestly can't! You have to get to know them first! Once you have dated for awhile, you will see the signs!😉

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

I think a big factor to consider is whether a man is governed by virtue or material. The main reason I've never cheated on my wife despite finding opportunities here and there is because I'm in the former category. To be able to die a good man is my ultimate goal in life above all else.

One of my ultimate role models is Marcus Aurelius. Despite being a Roman emperor, he lived a modest life, not bathing himself in luxuries as other Roman emperors did, and remained loyal and faithful to his one and only wife, Faustina (and even though she likely cheated on him). It's quite amazing to me since he could have any woman he wants in the known world and stayed monogamous and true despite it.

Yet he's one of those extremely rare types of men in history who, above all others, sought to live a life of virtue.

How do you tell if a man you want to date or marry is likely to cheat?

Such men seem increasingly rare these days, especially ones who have power, wealth, and status. Yet such men are unlikely to cheat regardless of their opportunities since they are so motivated by ethics.

Another thing in my case is that I am at least traditional in the sense that I believe men should ultimately be responsible for protecting their women and children. Being a protector is what it ultimately means to be a man. I would be a complete failure of a protector of my wife and family if I cheated on her. It would violate every single fiber of what I strive to be as a man.

Kelley1 · Answer

We have evolved to that men with the most descendants, had the most surviving children. That was accomplished by impregnating the most women. Men that did not impregnate the most women are not our ancestors. You are not going to change human DNA by wishing it was different and only fools would even try.

That means the men that can fuck the most women (what you call cheating) will. They are the most attractive and desirable men. Average men don’t cheat because for short-term relationships, no woman will fuck them because all women can do better.

steveusna · Answer

If you are like the majority of women, regardless of where you fall on the spectrum of social market value, you will feverishly pursue the men in the top 5% of social market value. If you are lucky enough to start a relationship with him, remember that nearly all the women in the dating pool are now focused on stealing him from you. The higher quality the man, the easier it will be for him to cheat. He doesn't have to try. Women will invite him to have sex without any introductions. He will smash every woman in sight.

Nikki1989 · Answer

If he is male and breathing, the chances are always very high.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

How do you tell if someone is going to lie to you. You don't. You're not a mindreader.

nawtee_me · Answer

I think everyone should have at the ready a resume of their last two or three boyfriends / girlfriends and exchange them on the first date with someone new. Before the second date they should talk to the previous ones in their life to get their opinion of the person you are wanting to date.

rebeliouse · Answer

whats sex like for asbergious?

laly520 · Answer

u would know from his behaviour

catsmemoir · Answer

Watch his eyes. Do they wander?

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

The big one is that they’ve cheated before.

Anonymous · Answer

If he’s too fast to want sex

jahaims · Answer

He has poor morals and values

Iron_Man · Answer

You can’t tell

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