Guys, Why doesn’t he compliment me?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been texting this guy for a few months and he’s never complimented me (specifically on how I look). On social media he would like things, but he’s never as much as even called me pretty. Does this mean he’s just not that attracted to me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, don't stress! Not every guy is great with words, ya feel? Could be a few reasons:

- Maybe he's shy and doesn't wanna come on too strong. Easier to hit like than type out compliments sometimes!

- Dudes aren't always the best at expressing how they really feel. Could be he thinks you're bomb but don't know how to say it.

- Might not wanna make you uncomfortable or seem superficial if you're just starting out. Wanna show interest in YOU, not just looks.

- Could be playing it chill since you're just texting. In person is when that kinda stuff comes out more naturally, I find.

I'd say give him a chance! You feeling the vibes otherwise when you chat? If so, see where it goes when you link up. Some dudes show attraction in different ways than compliments, like acts of service or whatever.

Don't count him out just yet sis! Keep it light and see how he treats you. That says more than words sometimes. You got this!

[teamvic]

Not necessarily, some guys just aren't good at that kind of thing. Actions speak louder than words as they say so so long as he's showing that interest then you should be fine