Why did he never speak or come up to me first?

[Anonymous]

I understand he’s extremely shy but if he could come up to his friends and make a conversation he could do the same to me?

[Hardy_007]

He feels insecure around you. Maybe he fears rejection. Nobody likes to be rejected. You should keep your signals on and see if he is smart and lucky enough 😉

[spartan55]

And why couldn't you do that to him?

[Asker]

I do.

[spartan55]

You didn't mention that.

[Asker]

Oh my apologies

[Drew-1990]

Are you close or more acquaintances?

[OtterMan68]

he's scared he'll embarrass himself

[Asker]

or maybe he just doesn’t care

[OtterMan68]

could be. Why don't you approach him? It's 2024 and women can do that now

[Asker]

well I do and we talk sometimes but I’ve given up because he doesn’t seem interested