I am a 18 f and have been talking to this 18 m for this week I know quick. Well I think I’m starting to like him and would potentially like him to be my prom date. Although just recently he has informed me that he will be going to his first high school party and that he already has a prom date I’m sure he assumed what I thought when he said that and then quickly said it’s just to help even the group out. That totally makes sense I get it I personally know I wouldn’t ditch my friend group for his. But am a little bummed out that he wouldn’t at least think about going with me. Again we have been talking for a week and calling till 12 ish and I truly enjoyed it. But I don’t want to be flirting with a guy or in the future maybe dating a guy that is taking another girl to prom. I know things change and he may eventually ask me but what if it doesn’t and I keep pursuing him. Is he worth it. I’m debating on pulling a good ghosting as a women who is confident and outspoken even about relationships I intimidate men so I have to ignore them and play hard to get. To have them on my dms again. It’s frustrating. Men complain about women never taking initiative but I do and it always fails and intimidates.
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Prom help. I liked this guy and now don’t know what to do?
