If you had a falling out with a guy who liked you years back, if he follows you on social media, does following him back mean anything?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

It really just depends on what the falling out was. If it was something major then maybe it’s best to leave him in the past. There is a lot of reasons why he could have followed you. He may be being nosey and wants to see what you’re doing, he may be reminiscing on the past, etc.

It means whatever you mean it was when you follow him back. It could just be following him back just because he followed you or jr could mean something more. The true meaning depends on your intentions.

Now, as far as he goes he could take it a different way. He could just figure you did because he did or he could make it out in his mind as it’s something more.

As far as psychologically speaking if you wanna know a deeper meaning on why you choose to do something. That’s hard to say.

I think you should just do what you feel comfortable doing. If you want to follow him go ahead and do it. If you don’t feel comfortable with it then don’t, even go so far as to unadd him if you want to.

[Asker]

The falling out was major. He liked me and we had an argument because he believed I was playing games and stringing him along. This was like three or four years ago. I have been in another relationship since talking to him. I don't know his situation.
He actually inbox me to ask if my phone number was still the same as the one he had for me. I told him yes. After he asked if he could text me. I didn't respond and that was it.

[Summeroflove]

Well asker I understand it’s hard to know what to say sometimes but it’s best not to flat ignore someone. Unless you told them specifically to leave you alone and they don’t.

I don’t know the situation with him either. You can either just unless he says anything else leave it at that or you can reach out and ask him

[Asker]

If you weren't interested in a girl and she messaged you, would you ignore it?

[Summeroflove]

I don’t like just ignoring someone. I would at least try to give her closure respectfully that I’m not interested.

[Summeroflove]

After I was direct about it if someone kept messaging me. Then yeah at some point I would ignore them.

I just think flat ignoring someone is cowardly. Not saying I’m perfect and I’m not saying you’re a coward. It’s just best to tell someone like it is. It would also depend on what they were saying to me.

[Summeroflove]

If she was asking me if she could contact me. I would ask her what irs about before I jumped to conclusions. But if I didn’t want her calling me. I would respectfully ask her not to or tell her sure and just see what she wanted.

[laly520]

nope