Urgent: What do I do about this guy?

[Anonymous]

Hi, I have this guy I like at school (I'm a Junior, He's a Senior), he's very quiet and only opens up to his friends. I've only introduced myself to him at the beginning of the year and haven't said anything to him since. I often catch myself glancing at him. Every time I walk by him or he hears my voice, I see him look up from his phone or glance at me. Maybe I'm overthinking it because it's a wish? what do you guys think? I'm honestly too scared to talk to him..

[mattthefatbat]

I had something like this happen during my time in school the only way I found out some girl liked me then was through one of her friends telling me, I also noticed how she glanced at me during lunch and was also a junior while I was senior, but personally I much woulda preferred hearing it from her personally in any way even if she was shy. With that said if you have something important to tell someone, do it. I dont think any guy would find it weird to be confessed emotions to. Honestly I always dreamed of something like that back then.

[ryanrhino]

Get his number and text him. Schedule something in a group of friends so you can have a group, but still some space and time for a quick personal chat.

You can literally just pass him in the hallway, touch his arm, make eye contact and say you like him. Easy and direct..

[Anonymous]

If you like him that much, you must approach.

[Asker]

that's the thing, I only have one class with him and the other times I see him, he's with his friends. It makes me scared to approach him alone..

[CalmUntilAbused]

Are there any girls getting a little too close to Him? I guess I'd recommend finding a redhead friend who will feed You intel about Him and the "disposable obstacles" around Him and then reacting accordingly. Oh, and knives are a little too obvious, even at a school with an active culinary club (the knives are not supposed to leave the clubroom). Carrying a pair of scissors around will raise much less suspicion. Also, please remember that some of the "obstacles" are actually pretty decent people outside of being said "obstacles". Befriending and indebting them might be a better way to deal with them, and I guess matchmaking them with someone else would be an exemplary act of returning their kindness.

Getting serious, though... What to do really depends on Your personalities. Judging by Your description, He appears to be shy, so there is most likely little risk of Him being popular among girls, and that might be Your advantage. And as You appear to be shy as well... I think You might fit in together.

However... The problem is His reason for acting quiet. If He's actually shy... You'll have to take it really slow. It would definitely be helpful to make friends with some of His friends (though in all seriousness, if they intentionally help You get together with Him, You owe every single one of them that is still single some serious aid in finding their own love). First of all, You need to learn about His habits related to social interaction and adjust to these habits (though given that You appear shy as well and that You come from a Christian household, I don't think it will be a big problem). Second, it would be good if You had some more common topics than just weather. Now... If You're "scared to talk to Him", You're probably on a good path, as You will not scare Him away by being too pushy.

Also, it's quite probable He's glancing at You. Again, the reason for this is unclear. It might be about "what's her problem?" (I mean, it's dangerous for men to initiate any contact with women these days due to heavily corrupted laws, so He might be wary of You and concerned about Your potentially malicious interest in Him). However, given that You seem pretty shy and reserved Yourself, it's much more likely that He's identified You as a positive anomaly and is somewhat interested in You.

[David94358]

All your subtle clues you are sending him with you looking at him and glancing back are 100% going over his head, he has no idea you are interested in him.

You are going to have to be a bit more forward for him to figure it out..

[Dongie]

Well you're probably a smoker which has him intimidated beyond repair. Approach him like he's a scared bunny and speak softly. Small talk, chit chat. You'll see.

[Danny_dan92]

Kiddo… for fucks sake…




This is the second time you asked this question.




Stop

[Anonymous]

Closed mouths don't get fed.

Don't worry he'll eventually date some other girl.

[Iron_Man]

How old are you and how old is this guy

[Asker]

Ima Junior and he's a senior in high school

[Iron_Man]

Too young to be dating under 18 wait till your both 18

[Asker]

bruh

[Iron_Man]

Like it or not, that’s how it is it can lead the sex and you can get pregnant leaving everything a big disaster for your parents to take care of the child

[Asker]

Im not like that, I have a Christian household AND i was raised right.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe you’re not but how do you know he is not

[Asker]

oh good point

[Iron_Man]

Yes …

[OddBeMe]

Sounds like you just need to ask him out.

[noohair]

He could be scared too.

[laly520]

u asked this before

[JayBones]

Ignore him and stop wasting your time on a faqqot

[jahaims]

Make the first move