This guy I’ve been talking to said he hurts his body in the gym, or pushes himself so hard he vomits to “dull his pain.” Why would a man do this?

[SnooPeppersLivia1]

I guess I’m just trying to understand.

[Billlewis]

Because we want to sufficiently impress you to make you want to let us have sex with you.

[SnooPeppersLivia1]

Him hurting himself has nothing to do with sex…

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I understand, but guys will do practically anything, just to have the slightest, most infinitesimal chance of having intercourse with you.

[UKguy999]

Lol what the fuck am i reading. Gym sucls anyway

[laly520]

he isn't mentally stable
putting oneself in such suffering isn't ok

[SnooPeppersLivia1]

I know. In my mind, I’m thinking he clearly doesn’t know how to deal with his emotions properly. (Because they’re normal to experience!) It makes me sad for him.

[jahaims]

He is replacing mental pain with physical pain. Sounds like he was trying to get attention.

[SnooPeppersLivia1]

What an odd thing way to get attention…

[jahaims]

Telling you about it is for attention. Not actually doing it

[SnooPeppersLivia1]

Yeah, I read ya. :)