On Monday I irritated him for being annoying and he was fed up.
On Wednesday I asked him if he is still mad and he approved. I asked "you are not talking to me for how long" . He said "till you learn and till I'm no longer pissed".
But later that night I don't know what happened, but I got extremely anxious and wanted to get in touch. I messaged him on Viber because I saw him online. He usually responds immediately but now... I was left on delivered. Then sent him a few more texts. After 10 min of no response... called him. His phone was ringing without him picking up. Usually if he doesn't want to call, he declines, but not this time.
I got worried... wrote him another message to beg him to call. He didn't respond and finally texted him "if you don't want to talk, please say it, but don't do that to me... I know I'm wrong".
Again left on delivered. He opened to read the messages the next morning and left me in seen (yesterday).
I'm super anxious, should I reach out to him or just wait?
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So you know your action and are experencing the outcome of it. If he is that type of guy who doesn't verbally express his thoughts, then let him be for some time, and see he will crawl back to you! The more you continue to text/call him, the more he knows you want him and he will continue to irriate you! Wait it out... when he reaches out, have an adult conversation about respect and understanding each others needs and how you should react when the issue repeats itself in the future.
I don't know if he is going to reach, but it's not a new relationship, so I just don't want to disappear like it never happened. Do you think it's okay to reach our in some time to aks if it's over or... I don't know
I understand your view on this but in a relationship it takes two to tango. If something or someone bothers/irritates you, out of respect to the one you claim to like/love, you would communicate and explain the situation. After your endless calling/texting, he should have reached out, and told you to give time NOT ignore you. I guess this is not the first time this is happening, so he is doing his thing, and then maybe will return.
I always say to any women especially in a relationship that they should not reach out to the men, in fact ignore him, cause I can promise you 9 out of 10 times, a man will come crawling back!
Maybe you are right and I should pretend I'm not bothered (when I am)... it has happened before although we worked together so he probably was forced to reach out... I don't know
Try a different approach this time (even though I know its super hard). Maybe it will be beneficacl for you and you will learn to appreciate yourself more.
It's hard, but I would just respect his need for space. Begging and pestering him is not going to help the situation and may even make him madder. If you say he got mad at you for "being annoying", he will likely think you are even MORE annoying if you keep trying to contact him. I know it's hard and it sucks, but just try to be patient and wait it out. After he's had some time to cool down, it's likely he will talk to you. Just don't bother him. Let him come to you.
I decided to wait till Monday... and I will ask him if it's over... and if he does not respond, then I will get my answers
Sounds like a good decision. Best of luck! Hopefully it works out.
Hebis clearly not responding when u reach out so wait
Do you think I should eventually say something at some point or pretend like I don't care
What's the point of saying somthing if he won't respond or he is not responding