He started acting weird and avoided me when my friend told him I admired him from afar. Two years later a former friend of him confirmed my crush to him and now he turns around to stare me down whenever he sees me and watch my movements from the corner of his eye and subtly mimics them (yawning, looking at the clock, stretching etc.), and sometimes gives me a Quick Look when he leaves the room. Why does he now seem interested when he used to avoid me? I look worse now than before
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Guys, Why would a guy first try to avoid a girl and years later try to get her attention?
What Guys Said
Why do you think he is interested? Nothing you said indicates interest from him. You sure watch him like a hawk though. How do you determine that he is looking at you in his peripheral vision. I guess you know what he sees
He sits in front of me
Okay... and?
Just go and speak to him no level of guessing will get u his reasons or make him talk to you
I messaged him and he said he was never interested enough to approach me
OK so u have your answer he sees u as eye candy but not enough to want to do anything just look
If someone is eye candy why would he not give her a chance? He doesn’t know me
Because he could be too shy to try or he might just see u as good looking but not want to date could be anything
@asker
Because you are just showing up and not doing anything to show interest.
And why are all you 25 year old still using go betweens? That's embarrassing.