Why would a 27 year old guy want to 18 year old girl if he knew her since she was 16?

[Anonymous]

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I meant date typo sorry

[Booklover_90]

I had a similar experience. When I was 17, I worked with a guy who was in his early 30s. We would text, flirt, and he made it known that he was interested. Long story short, he wanted to date me when I turned 18. The closer and closer I got to my 18th birthday, I got more and more nervous about the whole thing. I finally told his sister (she worked with us, too) and she told me not to date him. She told me that he only wanted sex. Although I was young, I came to my senses and put distance between he and I. All of that to say this, this 27 year old “man” needs to find someone his own age.

[Cherry189]

I'm assuming the missing word is "date", if it is I say it's because he's a weirdo and a creep. He's 27, why is he going for a girl who's 'now'18 and has known her since she was 16? That's like waiting until it's legal, sure legal by law but still weird and a pretty big age gap.

[Anonymous]

Possible pedophile.

A girl I worked with met a guy who'd become her husband. She was 16 he was 26. She married him, had 3 kids, and he started molesting them.

A guy who's mid to late 20's doesn't have a lot in common with a teenager. I'm not saying this makes him a pedophile. But definitely look for the warning signs.

[Asker]

He dated a retarded girl

[Berethor]

Looks like the jailbait wait, guys like young virgins, and that's why he want to date her.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/The_Jailbait_Wait

[Asker]

So if I wasn’t a virgin he wouldn’t like me?

[Berethor]

Might still like for your young looks, but he likely to lose interest if you was not virgin.

allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Asker]

He said he likes clean girls but he was fooling with a retarded girl who’s a virgin

[Berethor]

So he fooling only with virgins? he want a girl that no other guy has been with.

[Asker]

He liked some non virgin women but he said he likes clean girls but he does like teen girls

[Berethor]

Well liking clean girls and liking teen girls is almost the same thing, he prefer a virgin.

[Asker]

Some girls at his job are teens they aren't virgins

[Asker]

The area me and him live in girls get pregnant between 17-19 and younger

[Berethor]

Then he right to want to date you before you got pregnant from someone else.

[Asker]

He’s a user and he fooling with a mentally challenged girl for sex

[Asker]

Yeah I’m definitely going to someone else

[Berethor]

Then you are right to not lose your virginity to him, but he still going to try on his side.

[Berethor]

As a virgin you not going to have much trouble to find someone else so it totally fine.

[Asker]

Some guys don’t like me because I’m a virgin 😢

[Asker]

What’s so special about virginity?

[Asker]

He make it seem like no guys want me

[Asker]

His friends said if I a boyfriend he’ll avoid me and never speak me again

[Berethor]

Yea he would lose interest if you have boyfriend. How he make it seem like no guys want you? Some guys don’t like you because I’m a virgin? that's odd. What’s so special about virginity? a virgin girl is best because he never been with other guys, she not used goods, and her man can be sure that her baby is also his.

allthetropes.org/.../Mama%27s_Baby,_Papa%27s_Maybe

[Asker]

He a few times said I’m cute but he’ll make it seem like the guys I like don’t want me

[Berethor]

Young virgins are cute, he tells you that they don’t want you cause he want you himself.

[patrick994]

Probably because he is aesthetically attracted to it, otherwise I cannot explain it.

I am 29 years old, but I don't look at girls who are 16, they are children to me.

[David94358]

he probably likes her and finds her attractive but waited until she was an adult would be the most logical option.

[worldscolide]

Seems kinda creepy. If she were 20, sure, but 18 and he has known her since she was 16.. Just rubs me the wrong way.

[genericname85]

because he likes sex and he can have sex with an 18 year old girl.

[DextroShade]

Because she is at her peak fertility and probably hasn't been ran-through yet.

[Anonymous]

he's a loser who can't get women his own age and still wishes he was in high school

[Asker]

He was fooling with a mentally challenged girl

[Opinion Owner]

makes him even worse

[Asker]

I know when I asked him about it he refused to tell the truth

[Asker]

He was supposed to get married when I met at 16 but I think his girlfriend left him

[4ngelic]

because he's creepy

[Anonymous]

Because he liked her before but she was a kid back then.

[JacobJordan]

Because he likes her I would presume.

[jahaims]

To use her for swx obviously

[jahaims]

Sex*

[war_daddy]

sounds normal to me

[laly520]

want to what?

[Asker]

Date

[laly520]

he sick

[Anonymous]

He's fallen in love with you?

[FunkyMonkee]

Why not?

[OddBeMe]

He’s a freak.