So there's this guy that’s a bit of a character. He’s those types that says out of pocket shit all the time. Most girls find him insufferable and weird. I’m one of those girls. The only difference is that he treats me like SHIT. I kid you not he said some pretty nasty shit behind my back due to a failed relationship with one of his “homeboys.” It’s weird bc he was rude to me even before that. He said some concerning things about my appearance and mental health behind my back (craziness and ugliness) and compared me to this girl saying she makes me look like a model. It’s so weird, i don’t understand his morbid dislike of me. There’s this other girl in the friend group and he’s friendly towards her for some reason and but he was never friendly towards me. For background, I’m a really sweet and nice girl for the most part. I’m giving to my friends and i’m mostly quiet mannered. This one situationship sort of killed me mentally and I may have done some unsavory things in response to the guy’s treatment of me. Since were all one friend group, it’s impossible to avoid him and i don’t want to sacrifice my friends because of a failed relationship. I just don’t get why this guy that has absolutely nothing to do with me constantly pick on me and be mean to me. I tried being cordial and confront him about his behavior but i got nowhere with it. Is it just that i’m so unattractive that i’m an easy target to bully? I don’t understand 😭, need some opinions.
1 mo
Guys, Why is this guy unnecessarily rude to me?
