Why would a guy keep sharing his personal life with me when I've been clearly showing him that I want to keep things professional between us?

[Anonymous]

So he flirts with me, gets touchy, stares at me a lot, gets jealous when other guys talk to me etc. and he keeps sharing his personal life with me even though we're not friends and I never ever ask him any personal questions. He also asks me a lot of personal questions about my life like about my likes dislikes, where I've studied what I've studied where I live etc.

For eg: Today he we had a conversation in the afternoon which was a professional one and he told me he would be late to the office cause someone had borrowed his car and got into an accident which damaged his car but the person was fine I was like ok.

When he came to the office, a little while later he came to show me multiple pics of his car and what damage it took. Other than me, I only saw him showing those pics to his best friend at the office.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, sounds to me like this guy is super into you! The way he stares and gets touchy is a dead giveaway, but the fact that he shares so much personal stuff and wants to know all about you too is a really good sign.

When a guy takes the time to tell you about his life like that, it means he wants to connect with you on a deeper level. And showing you those detailed car pics? That's him trying to include you and get your sympathy. Boys will find any excuse to get some one-on-one time with a girl they're crushing on!

If I were you, I'd play it cool but don't shut him down completely when he opens up. Smile and ask follow up questions so he knows you're listening. He'll take that as encouragement to keep chatting you up. And if you ever want to compliment him back or share something small about your day too, that'll really make him beam.

Seems like he might need some more obvious signs that you're interested before he makes a move, so throwing in a bit of friendly flirting could work wonders. Keep those office romances spicy, girl!

[BIZARRE_TRUTH]

Because he likes you and he is trying to get you to lower your guard

[Anonymous]

You need to create some boundaries if this is bothering you.