How do I know if a guy likes me or he just want my attention? on ig?

[Cindydydy]

GUYS HELPPPP

[noemiii]

Usually a guy that likes you wants your attention. If you meant if he wants to date you vs. just wasting your time, all it takes is a conversation. Guys who just want to waste your time reveal themselves very easily.

[Cindydydy]

we met in person twice
we had short conversations on instagram mostly about the story’s i posted
but i don’t get it why he doesn’t message me directly instead of liking story’s and replying to my stories

[noemiii]

I’d not waste your time then. He may just want sex. Did you have sex with him yet? He’s not invested in you because he doesn’t really like you in a serious way, maybe sex or either he’s dealing with another woman. There’s really no other reason.

[Cindydydy]

nooo and the conversations are never about my looks or sex by the way

[Cindydydy]

last update last night he liked my selfie pic i posted on story

[noemiii]

Seems like he doesn’t really like you girl or he’d already be pursuing you. Have you thought that since the convos aren’t about sex that’s why he isn’t giving you much attention? Just saying, liking pictures doesn’t mean much.

[Cindydydy]

okay so when he replies to my story or text me again how should i act?
cuz i’ve decided to be dry in texting and replying to him after a day

[noemiii]

I’d just heart his comment and not say anything. You definitely should pull away and see what happens. If he’s interested he will strike up a conversation. If he’s not he will just stop talking to you. But either way you definitely should just stop engaging him.

[Cindydydy]

“stop engaging him.”
wdym by that exactly?
cuz im not texting him already

[Cindydydy]

@noemiii there's an update canu dm me please?

[noemiii]

Yes girl. DM me

[Cindydydy]

i didddddd

[Anonymous]

By using your head. If you do not know how to do that or are just incapable, then life is just going to be hard for you.👍

[Cindydydy]

so u think u helped me now?