We haven't been intimate since last Monday (my BD) and I don't know how to approach this. What to do?

[Anonymous]

He is been busy since last Monday and we haven't really done anything except a few kisses and he had his hands over me.

But I feel like something is up.

I don't know how or if I should say something at all.

[Serkee]

He doesn't have to be the one to initiate everything. If you want to have sex with him, show him. Take the lead. Who knows, maybe you'll both like it. And if he isn't receptive, talk to him. Tell him what you're upset about, and ask him why he's being distant. It's uncomfortable, but you gotta communicate if you want your relationship to work.

[Amara_09]

Initiate it.


And if you feel something is wrong, communicate with him


Maybe it’s not really what you think it is but it never hurts to talk to him about your concerns


Or even taking the first step to sleep with him, just be playful to get him in the mood

[Smashingdoozy]

If you don't ask you'll never know. There's a reason why people say communication is key in relationships

[spartan55]

How about just initiating sex?