If he likes me but has a girlfriend will he tell me?

[Anonymous]

Basically I’m interested in this guy and he is very much interested in me. But when I have asked if he has a girlfriend etc he doesn’t respond/dodges the topic. He has said in the past he is ‘unavailable ‘ and when I have asked if this is because of his girlfriend he just ignores it/doesn’t respond. My question is if he has a girlfriend, why would he not tell me about her ( she is never around) and what are some tell tale signs he has a secret girlfriend? #GuysBehaviour

[spartan55]

This is why you find out BEFORE you invest any time or effort into someone if they are in a relationship or not. It's called performing your due diligence. Asking the guy himself is worthless because he could easily lie about it. (and they do, believe it). Don't be naive and just assume he will be upfront about it. Why would he when 90% women would dip at that point.

[Anonymous]

He's not telling you because you're his "back door", in other words, someone he thinks might be better than what he has, or he just wants to mess around. Sounds like you're dumb enough to think he's a find and wouldn't do the same to you.

[slatyb]

If you want a date, ask for one. Then if he accepts, on the date you can ask him if he's is involve with anyone else.