Why do I hate when a guy call me cute?

Question

I feel like it's flattery i feel like when a guy call me cute when he see me means he doesn't find me attractive

Lliam · Accepted Answer

For me, cute means adorable; hot; the best kind of beauty.

When I think of "gorgeous"or "beautiful", I think of women who are into glam, with gaudy makeup, fashion clothing and expensive jewelry. There is nothing wrong with that if it tasteful, but cute girls can do that, too. In fact, you can't be gorgeous unless you are already cute.

Cute also has to do with attractive mannerisms that are fun, youthful, genuine and unaffected, with a bit of innocence and vulnerability, as opposed to vampish, sultry or seductive.

Maybe some people think a woman is gorgeous if she is voluptuous. But I disagree. Most beautiful actresses have cute or attractive, expressive faces and aren't "voluptuous". They simply have feminine figures.

My girlfriends were all, what I would consider, super cute and adorable. But when they were undressed, their bodies were amazing. And they were rock stars in bed.

So don't overthink it unless the guys say "cute" in a condescending manner or treat you like their kid sister.

patois · Accepted Answer

You don't like being pleasant and attractive huh? Would you rather people call you annoying and ugly?

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I know a lot of women who hate being called "cute" or "sweet" for a variety of reasons. Why are you waiting for us to tell you why you hate something? It's like asking "why do I hate pointy-toed shoes?" (Answer: Because I find them annoying.)

Have you told the guy that you find it annoying to be called "cute"?

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

It's just what you are unfortunately. It doesn't mean you aren't attractive it just means you aren't super gorgeous. I get called cute all the time or cute asf from guys who really like me lol. If you want to be called beautiful or gorgeous go for the uglier guys they love to shower that on you :P

Account · Answer

You will eventually stop caring whatever other people call you. Give it time and it will be the default.

spartan55 · Answer

Better not compliment you wrong , geez. One day you won't get any compliments and you will be happy to receive any.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Better than saying that you look like you've been hit with the ugly stick. Accept the compliments as long as you can. We all go to pot after awhile.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If a guy calls you "cute," is usually implies that he would be quite happy to have you as his girlfriend.

9in_Serpent · Answer

I usually call girls cute for their personality or if the did something cute. The only time i would imagine calling a girl physically cute is if she put effort into actually looking cute. But if you dress sext or casual you should be fine

DrPepper12 · Answer

Cute is a great word! To me it means fun, vivacious, probs short tbh, and youthful looking.

12karen · Answer

It remind me of that vids

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Definition of the word cute  1. appealing in a pretty or endearing way INFORMAL•NORTH American 2. sexually attractive. Your defining the absolute opposite.

OtterMan68 · Answer

what's wrong with cute? Cute is just another way of saying "attractive."

deus_ex_sisyphus · Answer

Maybe the specific guy in your mind, is using a condescending tone or body language suggesting they said it sarcastically

laly520 · Answer

cute is a sweet word but u could ask from em not to call u that if u hate it

KrakenAttackin · Answer

This is the crazy in your brain being non-rational.

mickeysmonkey · Answer

Does it make you feel like he sees you as a little girl

Jkgordon · Answer

You need a dictionary!

Anonymous · Answer

But a short girl next to a beautiful tall girl can’t be considered sexy. She’s cute at best

jahaims · Answer

Because you're insecure

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not you. How would I know?😒

noohair · Answer

Would you like dog or hog?

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