Are men really that shallow?

[Luopio27]

I am sure all girls in the wirld have grown up to see the prettier you are the popular you are among boys. sure the modelling agencies favor those pretty ones over the rest. Sure the pretty ones are aprouched, dreamed of and lusted on daily basis.

But in the end of the day, even the least atractive girls of my childhood are now happily married, and have kids. Most people that have grandkids are still in relationship with their wives whos looks have faded away to wrinkles.

If the men really were that shallow, where inly good looks gets acceptance, the human reproduction rate would be 1% or less of what it is now.

[NamerOfStars]

Shallow? No. Distractable? Yes. Horny? Absolutely.

Want proof? I've never seen Wild Things, but I can one up with one word: Entrapment. Ever see that movie? Probably not, but if you ask anyone about it, there's one thing they'll remember:

Catherine Zeta-Jones wiggling her way under laser tripwires in "look at my butt" pants before they became popular. Or, rather, under a grid of ropes intended to represent laser tripwires, since the lasers themselves are invisible. The movie actually has that, and many other detailed elements, and EVEN A PLOT. In fact a, very complex plot with lots of twists and turns and plotting, but nobody remembers that, because ass.

[TonyV]

Well you're trying to show that we aren't shallow but the your example was " even the ugly girls from highschool are married with kids" so uh you calling them ugly and implying you're surprised they have families now kind of defeats your narrative and makes you sound shallow.

If your not shallow you notice and highlight the best features of people, you don't say "some guy fucked and married the fat chick from high school therfore we men as a monolith aren't shallow"

[Luopio27]

I am the most shallowest piece of shit there is. Your answer was great. Me refering to high school girls of mu youth as ugly/fat to highlight men are not shallow?

Yes your point is rock solid. The fact that I am shallow doesn't mean most are like me.

[Apple1996]

Men are extremely shallow. Go ask any man if he wants a fat wife. 99% of them will say no way. And also many men settle for their wife but don't acutally like how she looks so they go watch OF/porn so they still hold fantasies about the women they truly desire. Which is very sick. Most women are the opposite they don't care how their partner looks and they don't hold onto fantasies of others.

[Joshydavid25]

I would say the amount of married women that check me out would say otherwise.. LOL.. But I mean not wanting to date a fat woman is reasonable.. Also many married men use porn or OF because they are in sexless marriages.. Because the wife is no longer probably attracted to them..

[Apple1996]

@Joshydavid25 I wouldn't be attracted to my partner either if he was shallow and used porn lol
Also why is that reasonable?

[Luopio27]

If a girl dated me only because of my looks, I wouldn't mind it at all. But then again, thats just me and I dont expect or try to make anyone like me.

I'll do me, you do you!

[Joshydavid25]

You twisted it.. Those men start using porn because they are getting any.. Meaning their wives lose attraction before they start using porn.. It's unfortunately been the cycle of marriage for many men.. It grows sexless and the wife even uses the lack of sex to punish him sometimes when she's mad..

And it's reasonable because a lot of attractiveness is based on health.. Being fat is not healthy.. Neither is it the natural state of humans.. And just to make it clear being fat is different to being a bit overweight or even chubby to me.

[Joshydavid25]

Aren't getting any**..

[TheSpaceGnome]

Looks are the result of good health.
As someone's partner, it is your responsibility to keep them at good health.
Therefor its not shallow, instead saying looks do not matter is shallow.

[DarkLegacy]

Only women are shallow, all this about men is just feminist myths to justify women doing bad things. You will always find women saying it is the men everytime they are called out for something.

[Joshydavid25]

Nope, in the same vein that women are not really good diggers.. Most of them at least..

[Luopio27]

If all women were golddiggers, 3rd world countries would never be overpopulated. Here in Europe families have 1-3 kids. Immigrants get 3-7 kids.

[Joshydavid25]

Exactly my point.. Most women are not good diggers, just like most men are not that shallow.. Or at least not particular.. Most men find the average woman on the street pretty attractive if she keeps herself up..

[ManInChains]

Men lust after attractive women but don’t love them

[RedInnocent69]

Huh? I didn’t get past Denise Richards and Neve Campbell making out.