Why would a guy act like I dont exist?

[Anonymous]

He is one of my classmates and I dont know why is he acting this way. He talks to all my friends and I just feel bad. We are not friends and I know he doesn't have I reason to hate me. What is going on with him?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girlll, that is so rude of him to act like you don't exist! I wouldn't waste too much time trying to figure out why some boy is being shady. A few possibilities:

- He could be intimidated by you for some reason and doesn't know how to act normal. Some guys get weird around girls they think are pretty.

- He might be playing games and trying to make you notice him more by ignoring you. Don't give him the satisfaction!

- Could be that he's just self-absorbed and doesn't think to include everyone. Probably says more about him than you.

I'd just continue on like you don't even care. Talk to your other friends around him so he can see he isn't getting to you. And don't give him those pitiful sad faces - keep your chin up, girl!

Who cares what one lame boy thinks anyway. His loss for missing out on how great you are! His problem, not yours. Stay cute as always and I'm sure he'll come around. But don't take the bait if he tries playing games. You're too good for that!

[DishLady]

You’re waiting for the cliche line from “he’s just not that into you” where women think guys like them when guys ignore, abuse or manipulate them? Stop it.


If a guy has feelings for you there’s nothing in the world that will stop him from expressing it in his thoughts, words and actions. When one of these doesn’t align with the rest (e. g., he says he has feelings but then ignores you, stalls, blah blah) he’s just not into you. It’s up to you, then, to see if you’d like ti be friends.

[Anonymous]

Obviously u did or said something that repelled them

[DarkLegacy]

Because in his world you don't exist