Why do guys pretend like I don't exist?

[Anonymous]

Guys pretend like I don't exist, they don't even make eye contact with me. I don't know what's wrong, is it because they find me ugly? I just feel so trash because of this, like people don't want anything to do with me because they dislike me or something like that.
On the other hand girls stare at me, but if I was attractive and girls are jealous of me guys would look at me as well, but they don't. So girls stare at me, not because of jealousy and guys pretend like I don't think exist. I don't know what's wrong with me.
I don't look abnormal or greasy, I'm not extremely short or tall, I don't have a weird style, I don't have weird hair. So why?

[DaySpring]

Look at how you sound... You basically said something must be wrong with you because guys won't look at you. Girl fuck those guys. Don't measure your worth by their views.

Many girls are brainwashed to the point they don't even know they are objectifying themselves. I really do think on average girls over value physical beauty. You are so much more. I do also realize men are to blame a lot.

Do you like you? That is all that matters. Do you like you? Because I promise if you like you then others will probably like you. If you don't like you then you need to grow and change the things that you can change and accept the things you cannot.
Don't let others control your own self esteem.

We all have room to grow and tap into more of the infinite potential we have but don't you EVER measure your beauty by the stares you get from men.
You'll get all the attention in the world the more you draw out the potential that is infinitely inside of you. - You are unmeasurably worthy -

https://www.youtube.com/embed/970oQZHtxOM

[Asker]

Thank you so much, this made me smile. :)

[TonyV]

A pic would help us figure out why.

I think you think to much, you shouldn't care this much what other people think of you.

I don't know why guys don't look, maybe you're to pretty and think they wouldn't have a chance, maybe they don't like how you look, maybe they are just nice guys minding their own business. Maybe they are afraid to talk to you cause everything can get a guy accused of sexual harrasment these days.

Point is you shouldn't be this selfconscuous, what others think dosent matter.

[Asker]

I don't know, and you're right. I shouldn't care about what others think but I can't control it.
I think I am fairly average, I'm not pretty but I'm not abnormally ugly. On a scale from 1-10 on attractiveness I'm a 5 at max. (In my opinion)

I can describe what I look like. I have long dark brown hair, (It's my best feature, my hair. And it's not long long, it stops at the end of my back.) I have an overbite, (not a terrible one), I have brown eyes, naturally pale skin, I am 5'3 in height (159 cm) and 165 cm with shoes (about 5'5 or 5'6), I usually wear oversized clothes or long skirts/dresses (I dress modestly because of religion. And no I am not muslim), I have a few pimples but they are not visible unless you come really close, I have glasses and that's pretty much it.

[DeadlyCreed]

It’s not that your ugly, they either like you, are jealous of you, think you’re rich, or think you’re weird.
You said it’s not that they’re jealous but I don’t know if your weird or rich, but if you’re weird guys still stare at you
Hence the guys probably just ignore you because the girls do (For some reason) and the guys just wanna get their attention because they must not think they’re getting anywhere with you

I made a lot of assumptions so I suggest you see how much backlash and hate this opinion will probably get before you listen to it

[Asker]

Ok thank you.

[Birdlegs]

It’s tough to judge without seeing or knowing you

[Asker]

I can describe what I look like. I have long dark brown hair, (It's my best feature, my hair. And it's not long long, it stops at the end of my back.) I have an overbite, (not a terrible one), I have brown eyes, naturally pale skin, I am 5'3 in height (159 cm) and 165 cm with shoes (about 5'5 or 5'6), I usually wear oversized clothes or long skirts/dresses (I dress modestly because of religion. And no I am not muslim), I have a few pimples but they are not visible unless you come really close, I have glasses and that's pretty much it.

[Pyrofox]

Maybe don't feel approachable.

[Asker]

I know that I have a resting bitch face, that might be it?

[Pyrofox]

No its how you treat others on a even level. If you don't let others know you appreciate them they will assume you don't like them

[anylolone]

Every guy or just the ones you find hot?

[Asker]

I don't know who finds me hot, and I don't want to give off a sexual energy. You know I want to be that $innocent beautiful girl", not the "hot and sexy" one. And pretty much every guy yeah.

[anylolone]

No, I'm asking if it's every guy or just the ones that you find hot, not if they find you hot.
If they don't see you, hard for them to find you anything.

[Asker]

It's every guy.

[anylolone]

It's weird, because guys give money to homeless women. (and men)

[Asker]

I'm not homeless though...

[anylolone]

Yes, that's the point. That's why it sounds weird, because you are somehow more invisible than the most invisible in society.