Do men tend to be attracted to more visually “mature” or “girly” women?

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Do you personally (as a man) tend to gravitate towards girls with a more girly, preppy, youthful appearance (ex: jang Wonyoung, Miranda Kerr, Sabrina carpenter, etc) or girls with a more “mature” appearance (ex: Kim kardashain, Adriana Lima, Beyoncé, etc)?

Now that I’m writing this out I feel like the answer is kinda obvious lol

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Extremely cute in the face and "scene girl" levels of thick hair on her head, and a petite body frame with a medium/small butt, but with really huge boobs that are bigger than her head each and aren't fake or saggy. A little bit of body fat, enough to hide ribs and abs and whatnot, but not overweight, and naturally perfect looking skin.

Late 20s to early 40s, preferably in her 30s.
The closest out of the women you selected would be Jang Wonyoung if she had thicker scalp hair and I cups.

That build is the "ideal" in terms of looks, but obviously if something is not quite met its not going to be dealbreaker. Though I have actually met women like this, especially in coastal metropolis cities with high populations and high standards of living they are actually fairly common.

I've even met a bunch like that who enjoy the same hobbies and interests as me (video games, anime, science, sc-fi, fantasy, etc) and are also artists like me (and aren't already taken or aren't already single moms), but I'd need to move to another country to be with any of those because most US women tend to marry/have sex when young because they are too impulsive (or she would have to move here), and immigration is not reasonable with how things are, I'd constantly fear impending seperation from an immigration law change.

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Thinking about my 20s & 30s... now that I think of it there were women who looked visually "hot" but did not attract me much. Then there were women who might be average & cute from an objective pov and yet they had magnetism off the chart & seem 1,000 times hotter. I can think of a few women like that. One was in her 20s and could charm nukes from Putin while not even trying to be attractive. Some others were 45+ when I was 30 and insanely attractive just from being fit and having amazing personalities. Fit meaning not fat. Doesn't mean she had to have a big chest or whatever. The holy grail was great looks + personality tho.

So, eh, it could always go either way depending on the individual.

Women were way more attractive on average 20+ years ago than now. A lot of it has to do with so many women having masculine characteristics now & being too lazy to even put any effort into how they look or how they live their lives.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Of course I do believe men gravitate towards more girly women, but moreso because mature women seem to intimidate more often. Funny you say Wonyoung, because she has this intimidating appeal that I’m referring to. She does not really appeal to men that much.

In terms of mature, I feel girly attracts younger men and mature attracts men who have established themselves. Adriana Lima would intimidate the average man. She is strikingly beautiful in every way especially during her VS days. Same with Miranda Kerr. Her face is girly but she is still very mature. The only real “girly” one on the list is Sabrina, actually. Lol.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy. They don't all like childish looking women. Some do like mature women (ladies) while others prefer the childish.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm attracted to more "girly" women than mature. I feel like "mature" comes with a lot of baggage, more negative views of people and the world, a sophistication that makes scenarios more boring, and too practical and materialistic. That's what I associate with it anyways. Not all guys are like me.

Girly to me usually gives me more of a feeling of feminine, fun loving, easy going, and romantic.

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't leave it to looks alone... but it could go either way

from all those you mentioned, I do not find any of them particularly attractive though, sure they're good looking and all that but I just don't feel particularly attracted to them

ThaMaskedMarvel · Answer

I tend to be more attracted to the visually mature -- and so are most men. Yeah, there are those that, do very well, lean towards the girly women, but I'll be darned if some of them aren't lying through their teeth. It's just like the breast size question all over again. Don't believe but half of 'em. The other half are lying, rotten scoundrels!

patrick994 · Answer

girls with a more girly, preppy, youthful appearance;

I have always liked women over 30 with a very youthful appearance,

1) Example of a 35-year-old woman who looks 10 years younger.

2) Example: 40-year-old woman who visually looks 30 years old.

I don't really like women who look too mature, except if they are really beautiful.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Men would bang a lamppost if it had a vagina.

MrOracle · Answer

Think about the hundreds of billions women spend to look younger, vs the tens of millions young girls spend to look older, and the answer is obvious.

Men of ALL AGES find 20-22 year old women to be the most physically attractive.

MisterWack · Answer

Women can look ‘feminine’ while also being mature. If she looks feminine I find it hot, to act mature is even hotter.

Don’t want to compare ‘normal’ women to celebrities, unfair and immature.

Berethor · Answer

Men tend to naturally prefer young looks, those girls are tend to have less baggage.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Depends on the guy. My guy was attracted to my goofy playful nature (and possibly the boobs too lmao) but he didn't care that i dressed like some tomboyish skatergirl

Saggitariusdiva · Answer

Generally yes but everyone is different and have preferences but scienc proves most men are attracted to mature and girly women but not everyone is the same

RebelinSteel · Answer

It’s usually those with a pulse for some guys, saying that for others that’s likely not even a requirement.

genericname85 · Answer

i think it is very well established that men prefer "youthful" looking women. i mean if you compare a "mature" supermodel to a "mid youthful looking girl", they'd probably still pick the supermodel.

Bricealan · Answer

I like just about every type of woman - girl - no particular type for me... I like them all... if they like me.

DextroShade · Answer

Men are attracted to youth, beauty, and innocence. Women like Kim K and Beyonce have massive stuck-up ran-through bitch vibes that would put off men from anything more than just sex.

Twalli · Answer

Probably girly, but it's more because I embody small in size and weight. Apparently I am large in another area, but I don't actually have anuthing to compare it to.

elaphe · Answer

I prefer "girly" - I like Miranda Kerr, but I also think Adrianna Lima is beautiful, and you have her listed as "mature." But generally, I like "baby faces."

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Based on those choices, I'm more attracted to the mature ladies.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Usually the latter, but if the former sometimes evince girlishness, I'd be OK with them, though I'm not into older broads.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Clear skin is SO important to me I have to say younger.

Anonymous · Answer

youthful for relationships. mature for recreational use

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I want her to be young when I marry her and grow old afterwards.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

That girly ish is for little girls. A good mature smart and decent woman is good enough.

DreamLife7 · Answer

Why are you so insecure? Why are so worried about other people's opinions? Work on yourself seek therapy

adam6402 · Answer

Mature personality, young appearance.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Depends on her personality tbh

jahaims · Answer

Dressing like a prostitute isn't a mature look

diversethought · Answer

Yes.

In_Trance · Answer

You can't generalize it depends on the guy

mayurr · Answer

Girly

Sagee1 · Answer

Please define both.

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