I asked my cell phone repair man if his friend was single. Is that desperate? Why do I feel so ashamed?

[Radiate143]

I use my electronics until they die so I repair them if possible.

I popped into repair an phone that was sumberged. He is married and older and is a decent human being.

When I went in, he was behind his glass display and a guy was sitting in the entry in a chair.

The guy was cute and my type. I was interested. The guy junped up from his seat and was lurking around, clearly agitated, trying to catch a glimpse. He then left into the market.

I asked the repair man if the guy was his friend. If he knew him well. His age and if he had kids. I. e. married without asking. So he said yes, he has kids. I said I understand.

I feel so awful about even asking. Was that desperate? The good news is that there are still men who actually fight temptation and are faithful to their wives.

Was that thirsty of me to do? I just don't know what's right and wrong anymore.

[bobby_bush_eater]

That's a completely normal exchange, not desperate at all. It honestly sounds like you handled it well.

There are absolutely men who are will resist any temptation and remain faithful to their wife. There are also lots of men around our age who do not want anything but a wife in their future, don't let social media fool you into thinking otherwise

[Radiate143]

Thanks! Social media isn't fooling me. It's men's behavior that has me jaded.

[bobby_bush_eater]

@radiate143 that's fair. Honestly for a time women's behavior after the military and college did the same thing to me. I got more involved in my religion (Catholic) and realized there's a lot more good people who want marriage then I realized.

Not that you need religion to find a good partner but it definitely helped me away from the red pill, college girls are sl**s ideology

[exitseven]

No, you are doing some recon. If you are interested in somebody it is okayvto check them out.

[Anonymous]

Go for it. Just consider the aftermaths that may or may not come. Weigh the options. Does he have kids?

Cass got bet by his friend that he couldn't lay with all the women in the nunnery. Cass took the bet. He came to the nunnery with documents said he was the father. The time frame is not important, he won the bet.

[elaphe]

I would be flattered if someone asked about my "situation."

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’d say pretty normal. I wouldn’t worry too much

[JonesT10Apr]

I think if we give for repair... they could go through our phone or tab or laptop. so I don't wanna trust anyone these days

[Radiate143]

That has NOTHING to do with anything.

[JonesT10Apr]

yeah, that's better for a man... unless he will find a biggest loss in his life I personally feel if he cheat.

[nativehoosier]

No, that’s being creatively prying 😂

[Radiate143]

Love! Lol