I don’t what to think am I the problem?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been in a Situationship for two years with a guy and we basically lived together 98% of the time. We used to have sex. He made me believe he was to so modest. I’m beginning to realize to he’s a big freak. Our sex life is nonexistent now but he has sex with everybody else. I Don’t understand.

Updates

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Maybe I need to say this…. I don't want a relationship…i do not trust men…im not asking why won't he be in a relationship with me… what im asking is what makes a man decide he doesn't want sex with someone that he has been having sex with yet still lives with but instead gets it from other people. I understand i make poor choices and those poor choice have given me a very messed up outlook on men. I get that not men aren't the same, however every man that i know has all been the same.

[Iron_Man]

That’s called a relationship living together not a situationship. i don’t even know what a Situationship is and I can’t stand that new term.

[jahaims]

If you don't have self respect no one will respect you

[Nikki1989]

A situationship is a relationship. It is not I can do whatever I want card.

[spartan55]

Sounds like you make lots of poor choices.

[Asker]

Well thanks captain obvious

[spartan55]

Your headline reads: "... am I the problem?"
Your post doesn't make much sense. You're with a guy for two years with no commitment and you wonder why he's a shithead? Now he has sex with 'everyone else'...😂 😂 😂

[spartan55]

Re your update: you are focusing and worrying about a symptom of the problem.

[Asker]

Because neither of us want commitment … idc care about him having sex with other people I'm asking what could have made him decided he didn't want sex with me.

[spartan55]

Yes you do, or you wouldn't be asking this. If you didn't care you would go start your side guy roster.

[Asker]

Could you please explain what you mean

[spartan55]

What do you mean what do I mean? What don't you understand?

[Asker]

I never said i wasn't getting it from others as well. I was trying to figure out why guys with hold from certain females. You are focused on everything else instead of the question at hand

[spartan55]

Because your question should be so far down your list of priorities. Why are you two even together? Why do you care that he doesn't want to fuck you when your scene is (supposedly) so active? None of this makes sense.

[Asker]

What don't make sense is why your so worried about my priorities. And why we are even together. We are not together. We are basically best friends. We have been there for each other when we were at our low. We have been each others rock. But we have both been hurt and dont want to BE with each other. And yes my question make perfect sense. If you docus on what im asking and not everything else.

[spartan55]

Yeah perfect sense in what world? You aren't even together? Even more reason not to gaf about this.
I'm really not worried about anything concerning you and your 'friend' or whatever you call him.

[Asker]

I’m asking in general … so if you don’t know then stop reply with irrelevant responses.

[spartan55]

Yeah, keep telling me what to do and see how that works for you.

[spartan55]

How would anyone here know the answer? He probably got tired of the crazy shit so he backed away.

[Asker]

Again I’m asking In G-E-N-E-R-A-L. I’m pretty sure I’ve already said that. Apparently like myself you don’t get much attention at home. So you come here to bash other people’s question and tell them absolutely useless answers so you don’t have to focus on your own solitude? Well captain obvious since you seem to know absolutely nothing that’s no way to make friends!

[DishLady]

He’s a jerk.