I hit my boyfriend and he spit in my face and his mom is promiscuos & she wants us to break up.. and I still love him? Advice?

[Anonymous]

We were in the car talking and we passed a certain house and he said have you been here and I said that years ago I hooked up there with a friend from school. And he said Is there anyone in this city you didn't sleep with? And I said don't insult me and he said I just asked. And I said you know what I should have slept with everyone except you just take me home, you are so rude. And he said why am I rude, I just asked.

Etc. etc. etc...

We arrived to my place and he was like kiss me and I was like I don't want to. And he apologized and kissed me on the cheek, opened the car door for me, we got in the apartment and then again we argued. And I said just leave. Leave. And he said after we talk. And I said ok then I will leave and I got up and he grabbed me and held me didn't want to let me go and then I slapped him in the face hard. And he pushed me on the bed and kissed me on the cheek and said Love I don't want to hit you. His body was shaking.

He said don't be angry at me and I said no I am angry at myself for being with such a rude man who disrespects me and insults me and he said I respect you more than anyone. I didn't insult you. It was just a question. And then I said Ask this question to your mother! And then he spit in my face 3 times while saying don't insult my mother I never insult your family.

I think this hurt him more because his mom is actually sleeping with everyone and he doesn't even know who his father is. Then he just collected his things and left.

I still care about him I just feel like he is insulting me because of his mom. I think he has a psychological problem because of her. And she was also telling him all the time to break up with me and she even found a new girl for him lol. I saw messages where she sent him her number and said call her and end things with that one (me). In her messages, she calls me that one, that girl of yours, that evil 😂

[b_lova]

Sounds like a toxic relationship. You should never put your hands on each other. One of you may get hurt real bad.

He does need help, but I don't think you should be the one doing it. You remind him to much of his mother. Which maybe why he likes you. It sounds like you have correctly identified as the source of a lot of his pain. He needs a professional counselor.

[Asker]

Well last night it finally crossed my mind and we have been together for a year

[Billlewis]

I think you deserve much better treatment than you received this day, which should absolutely include unlimited freedom of dare, bed and be intimate with any man with whom you wish to do so, and that's just for starters. I'm now following you, and I'd be honored if you'd like to follow or message me, as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[bobby_bush_eater]

This relationship sounds toxic af. I won't tell you to immediately break up with someone off one story, but do you think this type of violent behavior was a one time thing? You think in time things will get better after he's crossed that line?

[JonCobretti]

You still love him? Seems the spitting thing is a turn on for you

[Asker]

I love him, it's been a year, we are supposed to get married, have kids and recently so many bad things are happening 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[Asker]

I know he loves me too

[Asker]

We actually talked now and he said he loves me etc

[Yannae]

A toxic couple if you stay together. My advice is to let this one go. If you both have to resort to physical aggression to try and get points across, you both have failed.

[Nikki1989]

Dump this trash, now!

[Asker]

You think

[jahaims]

Break up and go to therapy

[Iron_Man]

Work it out with him

[Asker]

You think it's possible

[Iron_Man]

You can try

[Asker]

I can make up with him I called him he says he loves me and all and to see each other tonight

[Asker]

But the question is should I

[Iron_Man]

Follow your heart

[Asker]

😭😭😭

[Asker]

I don't know what I feel in my heart I am just sad

[Iron_Man]

Then give it another chance

[Anonymous]

Are you actually 28? I sure hope not.

[Asker]

Actually I am 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Yikes! Are you just a late bloomer, or are you somehow compromised?

[Asker]

Lol usually I am so calm

[In_Trance]

Gong show

[Asker]

What