Do men of good character ghost you if they’re not interested or are they still considerate of your feelings?

[Anonymous]

I keep debating on if this man is a good man but ultimately I feel disappointed because I felt he was something different and I felt like he was a man…. But I feel like good character in a man doesn’t just go away or change…

I felt how he treated me and ghosting me after a date even though he feels like he didn’t…

[Avicenna]

They should tell you, but some ghost out of laziness

[Asker]

I just think it’s more so self centered

[Countrygirl777]

He is not a good man if he ghost u trust me I was with a man for 4 years
. That ghost cheated lied to me and so much more

Ghosting usually means stonewalling and in that terms in my opinion it does mean he is cheating on you

[Asker]

I don’t think he was cheating on me but maybe someone else

[Countrygirl777]

Ya sometimes we don't think that but it comes out false

[Asker]

We were never in a relationship. That’s the only reason I say that

[cluelessromantic]

ghosting is the worst & has become way too commonplace. people don’t know how to communicate anymore.

[BarryLiverstone]

His character wouldn’t be in debate based on one action

[Asker]

But that one action is very telling

[BarryLiverstone]

What does it say?

[Asker]

Him being self centered and not caring enough to communicate that he wasn’t interested…. Especially since we did talk and go on a date.. he knows I’m sensitive etc because he asked… i just felt really hurt

I should NOT have had to tell him that his actions were weighing on my mental health for him to reach out

[BarryLiverstone]

I can understand that you felt hurt if he rejects you after the first date. It’s not like that was his first time he saw you right?

Likely he didn’t care enough to go on a 2nd date but at least you didn’t get strung along

[Asker]

That was the first time…

[Asker]

I just still have feelings and him doing that just really scarred my self esteem.

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh ok. If it was the only time you saw him your feelings are not that deep. And ig you will connect with someone else

[Asker]

But they are Barry they are. I know..

[jahaims]

Good men don't ghost. They will let you know they are no longer interested then move on

[Altheavas]

Exactly, came here to say just that. A man of good character should understand that communication is key, and express his thoughts and feelings honestly. They wouldn’t leave you in confusion…!