Talking to this guy why does he have two instagrams?

[kareenakapur]

he followed me on insta long ago. I followed him back recently and he dm'd me. I like him we've been texting and snap chatting. I looked up his name on google and I want to throw up bc he has another instagram profile. What is going on? That one is on private too and has even more followers and pics. He has pics up from 2022 and 2023 though on the one that I follow though and he has been tagged on a post from his college too. Could one be just for the girls?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Or it's a fake account, make sure it's the same person, there's a lot of fake accounts on Instagram of people and there's scammers that pretend to be people of the opposite gender to get info out of people to then use for fake accounts, the more accurate the info is to the person they are trying to imitate, the harder it will be to find proof it's fake, assure it's the same person and don't give any personal info until you are certain it's the person they claim to be.

[kareenakapur]

i asked him and he said he doesn't have access to it it got hacked and to report it. But then I reported it but like I have trust issues now yk I've been through a lot. He snaps me and its def his face. He called me today and it was a young guys voice lol. IM so confused. He has two younger sisters who are 18 and 21. They would have instas too I assumed so I tried to find them and there was no girls with the same last name so I'm confused. Im so scared that the account he followed me on was for girls and the other is for serious everyday people. I think i just have trauma and dont trust people tho anymore. Need to take things at face value

[ChicoFromThe305]

Instagram is a terrible place to find people to trust, sounds like a scam, also if they say that's their other account that they use to talk to people better or whatever, it's another one of their tricks, scammers ask for pictures I'd say try to facetime him to actually assure its the same person, if it is then just don't be gullible and use common sense and reasoning to detect wither he's being truthful or not, all lies eventually fall apart, just remember that

[kareenakapur]

oops I send lots of pics he has sent a few back though and its the same guy on snapchat. He never told me its a place to talk to people. He said he followed me bc he saw my insta pic and thought I was cute. I have no common sense and i am very gullible.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then one can only hope he's being truthful

[kareenakapur]

im not the same girl couple months ago though. Couple more heart breaks taught me better lol. I'm at least skeptical about people and def would never send nudes ever again. He fits all my boxes I'm scared he's too good to be true-- a Medical student who used to play on a professional USA team. why would he want me :( He follows sooo many pretty girls even prettier girls on insta.

[kareenakapur]

yeah hope he's truthful need prayers ahhh he wanted to dirty talk and I was like no i dont want to talk sexual things and focus on emotional connection he kinda respected the boundaries but also would keep on saying things like I would want to say blah blah but you stopped me the other day etc or you yelled at me about saying stuff like that lol.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I didn't yell at you, you are your own person, I only stated my opinions but I wish you the best with this dude I guess ha

[kareenakapur]

nooo im saying he told me that I yelled at him lol.

[kareenakapur]

for not saying sexual things

[ChicoFromThe305]

Ooh.. well if you did then he must have deserved it lol

[kareenakapur]

thank u lol noo i just have standards now. I call guys out on bull shit and treating me wrong.

[kareenakapur]

hope eveything is going great in your life <3

[ChicoFromThe305]

As everyone should, and thanks, likewise Kareena

[ProbablyClueless]

I've known a few people like that... they have a public insta and then one for family and personal friends.

[eagle1951]

sound like a cheater in one sense or another

[Anonymous]

What happened to focusing on school first?

[kareenakapur]

who is this

[kareenakapur]

he dm'd me what can i do

[LiamS95]

I don't know but yes it is a possibility

[AydenHazor]

He likely had one just for the girls