What is he possibly thinking?

[Anonymous]

Awhile ago I met a guy, he and I have the best chemistry. We quickly fell for each other. However, I know he has two kids and is at the end of his marriage. Our friends are rooting and supporting us except for one of his friends. Recently that friend told him to end things with me before he ‘hurt me further’ and saying ‘there is no ending’ to our relationship. Since then he has been colder to me than usual. He told his friend he will deal with us himself but he has yet to say anything about ending our situationship. I don’t exactly know what he is thinking or planning to ‘deal with us’. He is still talking to me, just a little colder without saying anything about ending. Can guys here give me a little insight?

[spartan55]

Insight? You are fucking a married man which makes you a gross Jezebal...

[Asker]

We never slept. Just talk not even kiss. Stop the judgement.

[spartan55]

Yeah I don't believe. You are going to say no judgement when you are the side chick. GROSS

[LaurenM1997]

Don’t let that friend rule your relationship he should butt out of it it’s none of his business

[LaurenM1997]

Oh I wouldn’t get with a married man you are digging yourself a big hole doing that it’s not gonna end well for you

[slatyb]

Wait until he's over his marriage.

[Asker]

I know. We are just in a situationship. I am just curious if he truly want to end things. Because I rather he tell me he want to end or still want me to wait.

[slatyb]

How long are you willing to wait? Until his children are grown?

[slatyb]

It seems unlikely there is any happy ending for you. There very rarely is in these situations.