Is my guy friend lying to me or manipulating me when he said he respects me? if he is lying or manipulating me why? what does he really want from me?

[Anonymous]

After I told my guy friend we should fuck because all he does is stare at me and smile turns red when he sees me, or stares at me when he thinks I’m not looking giggles while staring at me, turns around to stare at me and for a two minutes or longer, flirts with me, buys me drinks doesn’t care how I dress we been to clubs before he tried having sex with me but blamed it on the alcohol said he was just “flirting” with me but that he respects me and he was just being “nice” this whole entire time. But I been noticing that after I told him we can have sex he has been watching all of my instagram stories. But if he respected and was being “nice” to me he shouldn’t be inviting me to clubs or buying me alcohol drinks 🤔

[spartan55]

You tell some moron you want to fuck, yet you are all worried about respect and manipulation? Yeah okay...

[Asker]

No I am not worried about that you misunderstood how I said things I want to know why he just won’t say the truth and not lie about it or reject what I offer him

[spartan55]

Tell the truth about what?

[Asker]

If he wants to have sex with me? And why did he said he respected me? And said he was being nice? Basically what I explained in the question

[spartan55]

I don't know. Does he have to outright say he wants to have sex? The rest of what you are saying I really don't understand. It sounds like you are trying to create an issue.

[MadinaHasABensheer]

Yeah seems like he really wants to fuck you. I don’t think of this as manipulation or anything. He desires you. That’s all.