Guy's Behavior

Help me understand the guy behaviour?

He lovebombed me, stalked me and expected me to break with my boyfriend for him. I rejected.

Years after now we are here. He displays the following:

1. He doesn’t want to be my boyfriend and wants me to be friends with benefits

2. He doesn’t want sex, he needs consent and not the act

3. He can’t be my boyfriend but I should not talk to other guys or have sex

4. He always want me to obey him and respect him but he can’t do that back and verbally abousive and threaten to leave if I don’t respect

5. Always doubt if I’m having other partners or people around me while we have a private talk over phone

6. He doesn’t text me much but expects me to be there for him always when he needs

7. Doesn’t try to be around me but silently stalks me

8. Follows my social media and orbits

9. initiate conversation and then ghost

10. If I go cold, he is very warm and then backs off

11. Can’t see me with anybody except him.

12. Says ‘I have waisted more time with you than intended. You made me waste my time’,‘you offended me’ans so on

13. Act like nothing happened to all my friends and his’ and keep saying ‘we used to talk and not anymore’ while he himself didn’t want to talk.

14. Dismisses my feelings (okay) but try to hinder all my relationships

15. Expect me to be there for him and no man should have me

16. Keeps asking if I only kissed himand no one else should

Help me understand the guy behaviour?
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