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I had a boyfriend who kept saying I’m so pretty or beautiful. Then he started saying I need to lose weight and get plastic surgeries. Mind you I am borderline underweight. All my life guys have been critical of my body appearance and I’ve been made fun of by guys.
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Was he making a joke? I've joked with obviously skinny girls that they need to lose weight, because it was so clear that they didn't. Like telling a roided out dude that he needs to hit the gym cuz he's looking frail. The plastic surgery thing might be in the same vein. Like you're so obviously pretty that he feels he can joke about you being ugly. Sometimes what you see as disrespect is just playful teasing.
Now, if he's actually being a jerk, it could just be his defense mechanism. Like he's trying to bring you down, because he feels like he's below you.
Teasing hurts. But in the case of the plastic surgery guy, he doubled down on it saying he wants to change my body so I can look perfect and be what he’s attracted to.
Yeah, fuck that guy
He's toxic. Don't stay with a guy like that. I had a friend who got her stomach stapled because of a guy -- she was VERY NICELOOKING and he kept bugging her about her looks till she went to the extreme. He made her throw out all her clothes and "dress for him"... and after all that... surgeries and clothing and behavioral changes... he dumped her. She ended up needing SO much therapy afterwards that she left her work and family and friends all at once and went to a clinic. Now she's ok and married to a guy who knows how to care for and respect a woman...
Bottom line? Don't wait for this idiot to make you insane. Just leave him. He's not worth it.
Oh well shit happens. Cry me a river