Older man gets embarrassed and looks down, blushes and laughs when I flirt with him?

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Why would he do that and act nervous/shy afterwards. It seems like he’s a little bit scared of me or maybe I intimidate him with my confidence?

I made a joke about having sexy thoughts about him and looked at his crotch a bit, and he just looked down, went red and laughed, he seemed a bit intimidated.

I wasn’t trying to make him uncomfortable or be too forward.

He’s in his 40’s and recently divorced.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Initially I assumed you were much younger 6]7'yu7777777;'//

Initially I thought you might be much younger than him but that is not so. I'd say, whilst divorced, he probably doesn't want to mix personal and work life and consequently felt embarrassed.

I was reviewing the work of a female colleague, at my desk, and she wheeled over a stool instead of an armed chair to sit with me. She pressed her leg against mine.

I was annoyed. If it was at a bar I would have been pleased as she was quite comely. Maybe she did want to have my babies. Maybe she was doing it for devilment. Maybe she did not want me to find fault in her work.

Nonetheless I was annoyed because I didn't want sex to be injected into work.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like he doesn’t have. confidence in himself , he is probably wondering what you see in him and thinks it’s funny that you find him attractive, Sadly this type of stuff happens to a lot of people , when they start getting older , they don’t feel as good as they once was . I am an older guy now and my confidence in myself has faded somewhat because I know I aged and I am not considered young anymore , when a beautiful girl flirts with me , or hits on me? I assume she is just teasing me and just being friendly
, unless she keeps coming on to me , than that’s a different story , but if it’s just some random beautiful girl that I barely know much about, I will just assume she is teasing me and being friendly , unless she asks me for my number or asks to go out with me. Than I might blush because I realize she isn’t teasing and wants to be with me. If that’s the case my confidence comes back , and will take her up on her offer and fuck her brains out. So what happened after he blushed? Did he start flirting with ya back or did he not follow through with you?

DishLady · Accepted Answer

He might be embarrassed FOR you, kid. Never fling yourself at a guy.  He's not intimidated by you, little chippy. Go play with kids your own age.

MisterWack · Answer

Ask him whether he’s into you or not?

WindAtMyBack · Answer

He's probably shy, or just not good at talking to women. What you did is pretty damn forward. It's totally understandable that he wouldn't know how to deal with it. I think most men wouldn't, even if they aren't shy.

It sounds like you enjoy playing games and putting him on the spot.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

You likely just caught him off-guard with your comments and innuendos. Most guys in that age group would likely presume you don't have any interest in them, even if he's thinking the same thing about you.

Avicenna · Answer

-Men his age aren't used to receiving those compliments from a hot young woman

-His confidence has been hurt somewhat by the failure of his marriage

-Might be shy or think you were playing a joke on him

HawkPerception · Answer

By how you described it, it sounds like he's intimidated, shy, and attracted to you. If he wasn't interested, I doubt he'd act that shy. He'd probably act more in discomfort

Jindadi · Answer

Insecurity could be the case. Divorce can make people feel less than desirable.

Jackblue · Answer

He finds you attractive, but he feels that if you two date people will call you a gold digger or a little girl with daddy issues and him a dirty old man so he feels nervous.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

He's casting a centuries old spell to make you overthink things.

handsomelad70 · Answer

This older lad can't blush because I'm black, but I'd likely be somewhat embarrassed if you flirted with me.

NYlatefun · Answer

He may be attracted but felt intimidated with that comment. I’d enjoy it tbh, in particular the glance! 😂

NathanDavis · Answer

it's been almost a year now... lol ask him out

OddBeMe · Answer

All the above. But looking down is being intimidated.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

He’s just embarrassed/He could like you 🥰😋😍😘😚

firenine909 · Answer

You seem like a fun girl. I wonder if you like teasing him, I would have a lot of fun if I were him

Jerre · Answer

Just embarrassed, probably because he didn’t get an erection

Sharkstealth · Answer

Now that would make my dick hard and I would probably try to get you to touch it personally.

noohair · Answer

Terrified is the best word to describe this.

Dongie · Answer

You lit his fire.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Shy boy

Anonymous · Answer

Creepy

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