Why doesn’t my boyfriend ever take pictures with me? does he not like me or something.. I always find that to be a thing in every relationship I’m in?

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t post me, or post any little cut posts about being in a relationship. Am I overthinking or? would like a guys opinion.

[SueShe]

There are 2 distinctive kinds of people. Those that want to share their relationship with the world by publishing pictures of the loved one and those that prefer to keep the relationship solely for themselves.

Those that keep it for themselves and don't publish pictures of their sweethearts and the more discreet people but that does not mean that they are actually ashamed of their partner or that don't want others to criticize them for the choice in partner.

It is a choice and I think that you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you would like for him to take pictures and post them on social media and that it would make you feel wanted that others see your pictures.

Without communication, you don't make your point come across and that is often the reason why relationships fail, because people don't talk to each other. Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice ! I agree

[SueShe]

Take the time to talk to him. Prepare a list of pros and cons and go over the list with him. Tell him that you feel undesired because he is acting as if he is hiding you from the world.

A healthy relationship is one where you are proud of your partner and you want to show the word how lucky you are to have him/her.

[EmmaMary]

FOR FUCK'S SAKE TALK TO HIM... Simples. smh

[Asker]

Why are you so rude? That response isn’t needed

[EmmaMary]

Relationships are built on COMMUNICATION... Try using it, you might just be pleasantly surprised... Good Luck.

[Asker]

Who said I haven’t? Obviously I want a male perspective aside from what my boyfriend has said. Communication isn’t everything because people can lie. Next.. why are you even on this app instead of communicating? Maybe for the same reason I am

[EmmaMary]

I could very simply ask you the same question, in why are you wasting your time and ours in asking such a pathetic and trivial question, and one that has obviously dogged you for years.

Oh and if this isn't communicating, then please enlighten me what is... Thank you.

Also please note:... Unlike you who hides away under anonymity, I don't.

[Asker]

You obviously have some deeper issues to work through. Goodbye

[Asker]

Go see a therapist instead of misdirecting your anger

[EmmaMary]

I have absolutely no anger whatsoever... Just very simple sound advice, which you can either accept or not.

Now, please do take care and stay safe.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[spartan55]

Can you honestly say that guys should have the same level of energy towards social media as girls? Because if you do then you are clueless about how guys think.
I'll say it again for the pink users (and they won't listen per usual)
Guys DO NOT GIVE A FUCK about social media. Adjust accordingly.

[DishLady]

You’re absolutely right about older guys not really paying attention to it, but actually -17-25 are always on social media and glued to their phones as well as the nested IM. (It’s how they get to chat with the girls wo getting their phone numbers and actually talking to them…) The texting generation.

[spartan55]

Boys are not posting about their relationships and taking selfies nearly as much.

[aengus27]

I mean, sometimes things aren't shared publicly online. But you would probably be best to ask. I don't want to assume anything

[Asker]

Understandable. Whats your take on why guys don’t take pictures of their gfs like us women do

[aengus27]

I mean, I don't know about others. But I barely take pictures of anything lol. So I can't really answer that

[Nikki1989]

Trust me, that gets tiresome real quick.

[jjj101010]

Not everyone is into posting on socials or taking photos

[boggboss]

Does he post stuff frequently

[Asker]

Not really. It’s that and another thing is he didn’t post me on my birthday neither. I spent it in the hospital with him because his lung collapsed and he posted him being in the hospital but not me..
I’m 21 he’s 29. Just to give you some insight. I don't know if I’m being childish or if it’s something to worry about

[boggboss]

Me and my fiancée never post about eachother but we don't post frequently at all so it depends on how he is

[jahaims]

He is a normal dude. Guys don't do that