- So.. my boyfriend and I have lived together for 3 years, been together for about 4 years. He used to post me on his snapchat all the time when we first started seeing each other, but the last few years, nothing! When we moved in together, didn't even post about that. My birthday or our anniversarys? Nothing. And on the rare occasion when I do get him to take a picture with me, he just looks so annoyed and bothered by it, and I don't even bother posting them anymore. And I'm positive he's not seeing somebody else, we have the same work schedule and spend all of our free time together, never away from each other (but I still worry). I've brought up that it bothers me and makes me worry he's hiding me or embarrassed of me and all I get is "I'm sorry you feel that way". When we're cooking, or going somewhere he'll take pictures of that, but nothing of me or us. And he's on social media all the time... It makes me so sad! I see other guys posting their girlfriends all the time, or when I want to show somebody my boyfriend I have no pictures and it makes me sad. Especially knowing that if something bad were to happen, I'd have nothing to look back on! I'm just so confused and looking for some advice.
That is really strange that after that long he doesn't take pictures with you. Could it be because he himself is camera shy and insecure? I know a friend like that (in a relationship). He hates taking photos with his girlfriend or even in a group because he is insecure about his looks.
What does your boyfriend say when you have brought it up other than "I'm sorry you feel that way"? That might give some more insight as to why he doesn't take pictures. The odd part is why he wouldn't want pictures of just you. I have loads of pictures of my fiancé. He isn't super excited about getting his pic taken but tolerates it.
I am really wondering if it is more about him and less about you. I don't believe he would be with you for that long if he were embarrassed of you. That would make little to no sense at all. Any more info you can think of that might help expand on the issue?
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that's really weird. I wonder what made him change. she might not be seeing anyone but I have a feeling he's hiding something. do you have access to his phone?
That is weird, what does he say? Maybe he just hates pics of him, but why not sneak some for yourself.
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