Why do some men stare , but don’t approach?

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quiet_king · Accepted Answer

Some people are very lucky in life and some people are destined to be people, but the situation is different for me. Can you please help me? I have no hope left in life.

I've always been alone, I've never had a friend, I've never had a girlfriend, and I've never been in love in my life. I studied with bad people in high school and university. Spoiled people who use everyone for their own benefit. I'm 22 years old now. I look hopeless towards life and I'll be alone for the rest of my life. I'm sure, God, there are a lot of people for those people. Why didn't he give it to me when he was presenting it to them? Those guys beat the girls and cheat on them, but then they lie to the girl and she trusts his word. But I would never do that, if it got cold in cold weather, I would never hesitate I would give my coat or my jacket or my cardigan, I would always be with him. Why did God curse me with loneliness?

DontAskMePeople · Accepted Answer

Most of the time were already judged just from looking 😂. We either get labeled a creep or perv or something along those lines

Then if we do approach, it usually gets met by a girl who doesn't want to be spoken to.. and more judgement and labels (seems a lot of girls are literally unapproachable these days)

Try do that 5 times to 1 who will actually talk back.. and you would know why we hesitate or think twice..

I kind of understand the girls side... She gets looked at constantly where ever she goes, and gets over the amount of guys chatting her up or trying to get in her pants.

I literally feel as if.. she's seen me look now a couple of times I've given a little smile and eyebrow raise... If she's feeling interested then she can come say hello.. that way there's no shut down and labels.

Sad but this is the age we live in unfortunately

DishLady · Accepted Answer

1. You've got something on your face.
2. They're admiring but not interested.
3. They're interested but not available.
4. They think they'd look better in your outfit than you do.

(There's more... but as you can tell the range of reason will differ based on the actual guy.)

Jessikaah91 · Accepted Answer

They're scared of rejection.. and most of them have absolutely no idea how to speak let alone approach a woman.

Lionman95 · Answer

Simple answer because they don´t know how to approach. A guy has to self confidence and the knowledge of what to say and how to approach a girl but as many guys don´t practice approaching they avoid that challenge altogether to not have a bad experience.
So they prefer to stare from a far as that seems safer.

Fireguy17 · Answer

kind of like back in the days when you went into a store, look but don't touch. Possibly because maybe the have approached in the past and were read the riot act and figured it just isn't worth it.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Married. Living with girlfriend. Exclusive girlfriend. Homosexual. Too shy. Too busy at the moment.

molonski2 · Answer

They need a signal to approach , give them an " in " a reason , an option , much more difficult at approach cold.

SotiCoto · Answer

Any number of reasons they might be looking, but they're not going to approach without a good reason to do that specifically, and most of them likely don't have one.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Shyness. Happens a lot to really pretty girls.

spartan55 · Answer

Why are they required to approach you? Just because they stare at you? That makes no sense.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Some women are so stunning that we think we dont have a chance or she's already cuffed. Its not more complicated than that

strangeatcircleK · Answer

Same place I'm at... Afraid of how to approach or if to approach and maybe feels like they are not at her level of attractiveness

Anonymous · Answer

Cause we don’t want to get labeled as a sexual abuser if the woman gets the ick.. it’s almost not worth stating either because nowadays men can be labeled an SAer just for looking.

Chthou95 · Answer

Because they're self aware and know they don't have a chance but will still look

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Staring is easier than approaching.

bowenw · Answer

Shy and afraid of rejection.

Nifrayu · Answer

Because they want you to approach.

noohair · Answer

That is a caveman brain thing.

yes_goddess · Answer

Girls are visually appealing.

Anonymous · Answer

Another entitled woman

In_Trance · Answer

they're married

Anonymous · Answer

Common sense.

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