Why did he reacted like that when he crossed my way?

[Anonymous]

So i know im overthinking, but i really would like to get some opinion and assumptions from you guys.

at uni we have IT assistants and me and my group once went there cuz we had some problems with the laptop. I felt very attracted to the guy who helped us out

anyways i saw him in the hallway last time and he recognized me and smirked to himself while looking down the floor. It was a bit of a naughty smirk...

im wondering what about me has made him smirk.

-Maybe he just recognized me and did this. Soem peope are like taht and he is confident

-maybe i came across a bit too strong even by the way i vent about my problem taht night and he noticed im a bit lusty for him. Which im ashamed off.

-maybe cuz im a girl and he finds me innocent cute. It was a bit of a "hehe girl"-smirk.

-maybe i looked funny just didn't know

whatever it was i dont zhink he woudl have done taht with a guy so i woudl really like to know what was going through his head.

i would really appreciate some serious answers thanks

[Oliverlogan263]

Sis, try not to overanalyze this too much. There could be all sorts of reasons for a little smirk like that. Some possibilities:

- He recognized you and maybe thought it was funny/weird running into a client outside of the office setting. Guys can smirk just cause something catches them off guard.

- Or he could've found you attractive when you came for help before and was just briefly reminded of that. Doesn't mean you did anything wrong though!

- It is possible he was being a little cocky too since you're a girl. But who knows, maybe he's just one of those dudes with a strange natural smile.

- Or he had something else entirely on his mind in that moment that had nothing to do with you. We all zone out sometimes!

I wouldn't automatically assume any negative vibes. Boys can be confusing. My advice would be to just act normal if you see him again - be polite but don't overanalyze. If he seems interested in chatting more, great. If not, oh well, his loss!

Try not to stress too much about what was going through his head in that one moment. Easier said than done, I know - but you're awesome with or without a guy's validation. His little smirk doesn't define you, feel me? Keep shining sis!