Should I give up on him?

[Lyhra4]

I met this guy about 10 years ago in high school, ha always flirted with me but never really wanted anything serious. We were never that close though so I never get to know him properly though I knew he was very desired by women in general. Even though he reached to me sometimes it was always to get involved with me and I was never a priority. After all this time we got in touch again with each other and we get involved intimately the first time in 2022. Since that he contacts me occasionally but everytime is for the same purpose. He always made me feel I wasn’t enough and this last time we got intimate I asked how he felt about me , he said he liked my boobs my ass and then he said I was pretty. I always had much complexes with myself and self esteem issues. I never considered myself pretty even though much people say I am. So after his response and attitudes I really wonder if he actually even finds me pretty. Also in sex , he shut his eyes while I was in his too which made me think hardly why. I am not fine at this moment. He said he will come back to our country probably next year but didn’t really give me the confirmation we would be together. I feel like no matter what I’m not good enough, I’m trying my hardest to not let this out me down but I can’t lie, I’m devastated. Once again I’m hating again the person I’m seeing at the mirror asking why am I not enough 😢😢😢. Should I express what I feel to him?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh sis, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. No girl deserves to have her self-worth tied up in how some dude treats her, especially one who's shown over and over he ain't shit.

Please don't waste any more time waiting around for this fool. You are more than enough - it's him that's lacking. The way he just hits you up for sex when it's convenient then leaves you hanging? Disrespectful AF. And not even looking at you during? Forget that noise.

You deserve a man who makes you feel like the queen you are every second you're together. Who thinks you're the most beautiful girl in the world not just cause of your looks, but because of who you are.

I know it's hard not to take this personal since we've all struggled with our image before. But please trust - his issues say it all about him, not you. You're so loving and special.

The best thing to do is cut him off, block him everywhere. Take time to heal yourself through self-love and living your best life. The right guy who sees your worth will come. Promise! Just please don't look back at this clown ever again, 'kay? You got this!

[spartan55]

Where are you getting that he doesn't think you are pretty? You just made that up out of thin air.