Am I the problem or is he?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys. so my boyfriend and i have been on real bad terms lately. it’s come to a point where we can’t have a normal conversation anymore, it’s only arguing. So let me tell you what is happening. so i feel like he is choosing his friends over me, we barely hangout and he doesn’t call me or text me anymore. i have been calling him to nag, complain or ask him questions about the past for a real long time. i’ll call him to ask him why we don’t hangout anymore or why he doesn’t call me or text me anymore or ill call him to ask him why he liked girls pictures in the past or if he’s been drinking too much with his friends. he says i don’t call him for anything but to complain, nag or ask him something about instagram and when he doesn’t answer the first time i call him until he does. i feel like all i do is argue with him because i feel like the situation I've been concern about has not been resolved and he says he has reassured me so many times i just don’t listen to him. i’ll admit, he has reassured me but only with instagram. to why he chooses his friends over me and why we don’t go out on dates or why he doesn’t call or text me anymore he has not. i can imagine it’s because all i do is complain and i don’t make him feel loved or cared for. i know im not happy in my relationship or with myself in general. am i the problem or is he?

[BetaBucks]

It sounds like he doesn't want to be with you and doesn't want to do the breakup himself. You sound like you add a ton of drama and stress to his life. And he hasn't learned to cut that kind of stuff out of his life properly yet. You both will be happier with other people.

[sage2021]

I am afraid that you are in a one way relationship.
You would be better off with the type of guy that doesn't behave the way he does which makes you ask questions and sound naggy.
If you were with a guy that didn't do those things and was focused on you and your relationship you would feel like a mountain had been lifted off your back.
I don't believe women like or enjoy having to complain or nag, but when you are with the type of guy you are with he brings that out in you.

[SweetJoyGirl]

He is the problem. Dump him, move on, and get your nails done. 💅🏾

[AviatorTom]

You are the one nagging him. You might be better off with a new boyfriend. If you don't want to do that, stop calling, texting and nagging him and see what happens.

[moneymagnet24]

Expiry date over for your relationship

[Asker]

why?

[moneymagnet24]

Because to be honest you deserve better