If he wants someone to love, then why does he follow models and half naked chicks on social media?

[Marie0x]

This guy I know (he tried to date me but I only like him as a friend) made a post on social media about how he wants someone to love. But that no girl is attracted to him or wants to date him. Yet he follows a lot of half-naked chicks on Instagram. I don't get men like him at all he wants someone to love. Yet all he does is follow half-naked women and models via Instagram. Does this make sense?

[RespectfulGuy]

Simple answer: he's a medically healthy, straight guy who is confused between lust and love.

Yes, understand that he has a sexual need and is constantly lusting for sex.

However he failed to impress girls to go to bed with him.

It becomes a vicious cycle. The failure made him more horny and desperate for sex. And his desperation made girls avoid him.

To conclude, it's up to you to decide if you like him and enter a relationship. He's full of lust. But that doesn't mean he can't love.

Yet, until you give him the opportunity, you'll never know if he's really showing love for you.

Your call.

[spartan55]

Makes sense to me. One has nothing to do with the other.

[avery58]

Well he's single. It's the same as someone hooking up with a lot of people while single, you can form whatever opinion about it but they're not disrespecting anyone by it. But it's different if he follows those kind of accounts and wants to find a girl that doesn't show as much skin as them.

[Marie0x]

Form an opinion? It doesn't make common sense. He thinks a woman will love him when all he does it follow half-naked women. Yeah ok. It's not rocket science.

[avery58]

You should know there are girls who don't care or who accept this kind of behavior for whatever reason

[petitedollbabee]

There’s nothing wrong with that, if he’s single. You can be a pervert yet still crave a deep level of intimacy like love.

[Marie0x]

No real woman will want to be intimate with a man who follows a lot of half-naked chicks.

[petitedollbabee]

Not all women care about that sort of thing.