Why does this dude get so mad after sex but always come back for more?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been hooking up with this dude since 2020. For the most part it’s just been casual sex which I came to terms with after liking him a lot and it went no where. I went a full year without talking to him and he literally wrote me almost every day for a year. Stating he genuinely misses me wants to take me out which made no sense to me because if I just wanted sex from someone I’m NOT chasing for a year not even a month. There’s so many fish in the sea as he is attractive and good in bed. I gave him another chance because I was feeling lonely and we hooked up again. The first couple hookups were cool but he just has this weird habit of becoming upset after sex but always comes back after a couple of days or weeks for more. I just don’t understand if you just want sex why does he keep coming back after all these years? I have no problem with the casual hooking up it’s just all weird to me I don’t understand his behavior?

[Anonymous]

Stop fucking weird emotionally and mentally unstable men…. Plain and simple. You’re not gonna reason with someone whose unreasonable unfortunately that could include yourself.

You’ve been having sex for FOUR years…. Nothing else has came out of it. Most people date for 4 years they get married or decide irs not meant to be.

If you’re not chasing him and there’s other men. Why not pick another man? When you have all this casual sex. It’s telling men who are NOT man whores (not like this) that you’re a whore and are gonna cheat. That’s the message you’re sending. When good dudes who aren’t sleeping around see someone who is. That’s just a major red flag.

[Asker]

A whore? I’ve gone YEARS without sex. I didn’t screw this dude for a year and half which you clearly read passed! There’s nothing wrong with being single usually the dude was the cheater and tumultuous NOT me. No one wants to stay around and deal with that! The double standard for men in society is egregious!

[Anonymous]

Lol, you think you were the ONLY one he was chasing. That's adorable!

Guys that don't chase don't get the cookie hun. Such is the lot of being a man.

Good thing you were born a woman. You probably wouldn't fair well as the opposite gender.

[Asker]

Lol we’ve already hooked up so what’s the point in continuing to chase if there’s OTHER fish in the sea to go after that he’s probably never hooked up with! And I think I would’ve been fine because I don’t believe in playing childish games with people.

[Opinion Owner]

2 things
1. They ain't all giving up the cookie that's why. He's a farmer so to speak and he's tending many crops (women)
2. It's a hookup. I think you're confusing a hookup with a relationship. As long as you're giving her the fantasy she wants to put out it doesn't really matter how many games you play.

[DishLady]

Does it register to you that he doesn't just want hookups... or that loneliness isn't solved by hookups? There's not much else to understand.

[OlderAndWiser]

This!

[spartan55]

Why is it weird? You are easy sex for him, why would he get rid of that? What is he getting mad about?

[Asker]

“ Easy sex “ so you clearly didn’t see the part when I went a year and a half without talking to dude and he kept hitting me up constantly all day everyday. No sex was involved. I’m pretty sure he didn’t go a year without sex. And like I said I’m not chasing after something I’ve already had when there’s literally easy sex every fucking where!

[Sam1133]

Because no other girls giving him her pussy.
So comeback to his old toys..

[Asker]

There’s no way he went a year in a half without sex.

[Asker]

** AND a half

[Wise4myage]

Because its probably all he can get, and he likes it.

[RedInnocent69]

Because sex is an drive, an addiction, and if you know where you can get it…

[ProbablyClueless]

Hormones. The answer is as simple as that.

[rachel776]

what is he mad about