I had a big argument with my husband last night because he thinks my bottom has gotten "way too fat" and he keeps saying I should diet. I personally like my big booty 😤 what do you think?
I don’t think you’d wanna know my thoughts cause it may ring thoughts in your mind even though you’re married, it’s gon stay in your mind that your husband betta gon to recognize real quick what he got talkin bout your booty fat and not appreciate before he lose his tender touch
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I never have and never will think about another man, I love him and only him 🤗
I forget where I heard the commercial but there's a place where you can get your eyes tested and a pair of glasses and you get a free extra pair of glasses... If I can find it I'll send you the coupon so you could give it to your husband because he really needs both pair of glasses.
I can't see what he's talking about I mean you might have been really really tight and firm maybe that's where he wants you to go again but from what I see is beautiful and there's nothing wrong with it with any of it the whole thing is good from the head to the toe I would say but you don't need to. Go on a diet to do any toning all you need to do is walk 30 minutes a day at a fast pace for 30 minutes and even your nose will tone up everything will just get super tight on you and I bet you that would look good too but where you are right now it looks great
If it's fat, then he's unappealing. But "fat" is a relative term. What one person considers fat, another might see as ideal. If you disagree with your husband's opinion, check your BMI - it's the quickest way to confirm if you're within a healthy range.
Depending on how big of a booty the booty is... too big is unnatractive to most men but then again me personally am not most men and love a big booty woman like lord knows n only lord knows exactly how much I love a woman's ass n tbh you've got such a nice ass its hard to not look and stare but I think you've got a nice big booty that's for sure and your husband doesn't know a single thing about how much he's missing out by just saying the dumbest shit ever about your weight and big booty of yours shith you should be flexing an ass like yours tbh like I said only god knows what a man like me would do with a woman and a woman with an ass like yours!
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Depends on what each man likes. Just like a steak, some like rare, medium rare n well done. I like what I see that’s for sure. I don’t like an ass that’s too skinny. I prefer women w an ass that has shape to it. A girl who’s just overweight w a large ass isn’t the same as a girl who has curves. I’d smack it all the time. If you don’t like it than I’d say to try to do something about it. But depending on the man you like he may or may not like it. One size does not fit all. I like it too just to confirm what you said about you liking it.
In regards to your argument, don't know how it looked before so i can't say if he's right or wrong but i can tell you that you have an amazing ass.
As for assess in general it depends on the ass and the man looking at it/touching it. Some men prefer round asses some like em massive while others prefer compact.
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This is how it looked when we first met, I was quite skinny but it was a good few years ago now https://ibb.co/28nWrrs
You'r body has certainly changed from a more athletic one to a thicker one, everyone has their taste some prefer thickness others prefer athleticism. I like both but i can understand why he may prefer one over the other.
I don't think there is anything wrong with a larger bottom, but it depends on the person. Some smaller men may want to be with someone who is smaller in the posterior region. You should consider his thoughts and also determine if gaining the excess weight is healthy for you too.
It absolutely does not matter what random people on the internet think. You married him not us. And the whole idea of women arguing with men about what men find attractive is amusing to me. It'd be like me arguing with you over your favorite food choice, and telling you that you're wrong.
I will give ya this last piece of advice: If your butt is different than the one you had when he married you then it sounds like more of a YOU problem than a his problem.
That's a matter of taste, and there is a wide range of opinions.
I'm personally a fan of smaller booties, but it's no accident that one of my brother's favorite songs is Fat Bottom Girls (You Make The Rockin' World Go 'Round) by Queen. Everyone likes what they like. He likes lemon/lime drinks (7-Up, Sprite, etc.) and I hate them. Just a matter of individual taste.
I read some of the other posts where you are defending him from some negative comments by others even though he likely pissed you off with the comment about your bum. He should be so lucky to have someone that cares enough to defend him given the circumstances.
I think you look great and hope he comes to his senses and realizes how good you are to him, very commendable.
If I said it has made me have very naughty thoughts, and has given me a problem that means I can't stand up in the public location I'm in, would that answer the question?
LoL. I would say there are some different styles of underwear that would flatter your asset a bit better. Your boobs also look great from the side back angle :-)
That isn’t fat. It’s phat! That’s a big difference. But maybe shed some weight if your hubby prefers the flat booty. Dam shame too. You got a nice booty. RIP your bottom
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I used to be quite skinny, I suppose that's what he misses
Well I mean you must be hot. Trust me a lot of dudes just came to your photos but you already know that.
All you gotta do is shake it and dudes will be drooling. Try it! If you don’t think you’re hot. Find some dudes wear some short shorts and shake some ass. You’ll see big bulges.
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You really think so? I find it a little hard to believe
Look asker I know you would not publicly admit you think about other guys… even if it’s just a fantasy. Especially because of the losers on websites like this.
But I know you need something posing photos like that. I mean I think deep down you know guys would simp for you and it would boost your confidence. Which there’s nothing really wrong with
Oh and let me guess. The bedroom life…. He probably only cares about getting himself off and it’s over before you even get warmed up. You just gotta fake it til you make it to keep him happy.
Look. Anyone who comes over to my place better pack a lunch. You’re gonna be here a while. I won’t leave you hanging. Oh… and a lot of water.
It would be nice to have someone who focuses on you for a change. Who doesn’t just make you feel sexy but makes you KNOW you’re sexy. Someone who cares about if you’re enjoying it as much as they are.
I mean let’s be honest. If he was meeting your needs you wouldn’t need to be on here asking for advice. You have needs too
Just imagine being in a room. No nagging husband if you have kids no kids around. Just it’s all about you. Focusing on you. Not worrying about pleasing the other. Not trying to worry about if you’re sexy or not. Just you enjoying and receiving. You’re just able to relax and enjoy yourself
At the same time I can feel your energy begging for something more. It feels good to feel sexy.
And how much does he love you? He’s saying you’re fat and ugly. Which you’re not. I’ve seen grotesque women before who are not attractive. You’re fucking hot
I mean. I think you were being honest about things being exciting as well as liking feeling sexy. Look I ain’t here to judge you like some of the other dudes. You also seem to like the way I talk compared to other men here who you didn’t respond to at all.
Look it’s okay to have these feelings even if you wouldn’t act on it. That’s why I assume you’re here after all is to chat. I feel like if you could have someone to talk to privately. You would feel better
I think it should be balanced to your breast size. Its not easy to tell from the pics but I think he is right. You seem to have one body above the waist and another below the waist.
Big booty appears to be an American thing and I don't understand it.
What a lame excuse to show off naked in front of people, it's easier for you to hear the word fat instead of trash, because to me you're just a cheap girl!
It's enough to see you 90% naked in front of everybody on the net, asking about your a$$, boobs naked and if the site's rule allows you to post a nude photo, i'm sure that you'd post yourself naked...
Listen to me little girl, considering what you have said is true, why do you care about it? Tell him that you're like that, if he doesn't likes what he see and what he have, he can just f*ck off!
Personally i see nothing wrong about your body, actually i like women with such type of bodies!
You have posted it for people to look, i looked and gave my opinion that's all! You're free to be what you want be, end of convo! I'm not going to waste more time talking about your a$$!
i mean "fat" is usually not a good thing. men do like feminine curves tho. so having feminine curves and being fat are a huge difference. the angle in the pictures is kind of bad to tell but it doesn't look fat to me.
If that's you in those pics your husband is crazy. You look amazing!!! 😍😍😍 Wish you wasn't anonymous cause now I want to follow you I want to hear what else he has to say! 😉😉😉😉
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