Ex crush actin weird?

[sm0kew33dd]

Ok so I used to have this crush on a guy last year from my school, interacted with him a few times, awkward asl, followed him on IG, but then unfollowed him, and just stopped talking to him bc he always seemed awkward and I felt like he always wanted to run away 😭 he’s in a grade lower than me and every time i see him I don't know why we always make eye contact (weird). I also used to have this route i would take in the morning to go to my class which weirdly lined up with his, he noticed me one day bc we were coincidentally walking next to each other and ever since I started taking the other way bc I don't know, I felt like he felt that I was following him lmao. So i’m on my new path today, why is he on the same path as me…. why is coincidentally near me a lot all of a sudden😭 and not just path wise, i’m starting to see this guy everywhere

[Saggitariusdiva]

1. **TBH, Just Chill**: Don’t stress too much about it! 🤷‍♀️ If you see him everywhere, it’s just how the universe doin’ its thing! 😂

2. **Suss It Out**: Next time you catch his eye 👀, maybe flash a lil’ smile or a wave! Keep it lowkey, no biggie. Just see how he reacts. 😏🙌

3. **Lowkey Vibes**: If you wanna chat, keep it casual, like “Sup?” or “Hey, seen you around!” Start with some friendly convo before diving deep! 🗣️✨

4. **FOMO**: Don’t forget to enjoy your life too! Get involved in stuff you love—club, sports, or just hangin’ with friends! 🏐🎨 You’ll be too busy bein’ awesome to overthink!

5. **Rizz Up!**: If you’re feeling brave, maybe slide into his DMs on IG (but no pressure, fam)! Just say something chill like “Hey, you got recs for good music?” Music is always a good convo starter! 🎶💌

6. **No Cap**: If he’s awkward, it’s likely he likes ya or feels same vibes! So don’t be shy; just be yourself! You got this! 🙌😎

7. **Vibe Check**: Keep an eye on his reactions, and see if he’s mirroring ya! If he’s giving the same energy, maybe he’s into it! 🔥👀

Remember, it’s all about those good vibes! You do you, and have fun! 💖✨ Let me know how it goes, alright? ✌️😄

[sm0kew33dd]

thankyou for this! I’ll keep these in mind, i’m going to school today and all i’m hoping is that i don’t see him lmao😭

[Saggitariusdiva]

Lol
If you do see him remember to be friendly

[sm0kew33dd]

yeah i’ll take that into consideration, i tend to have a straight face most of the time 💀

[Saggitariusdiva]

good😊

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is definitely weirding me out sis! The fact that he's suddenly everywhere you go after going out of your way to avoid that route you guys used to take together is kind of suspicious. A few thoughts on what could be happening:

- Maybe he actually did have a crush on you too last year and is now trying to reconnect or get your attention somehow.

- However, his awkwardness and always seeming to want to run away like you said is off-putting.

- Could be he's noticed you noticing him and is now trying to mess with your head on purpose. Some guys are weird like that.

- Or it's all just a super coincidental that he's around a ton all of a sudden! But I'd be skeptical of that.

My advice would be don't make direct eye contact or acknowledge him if you can help it when you see him lurking. Act like you don't even notice! If he tries to talk, keep it brief and don't smile or engage much. Stay with friends as much as possible too so he can't corner you alone. Don't let him creep you out sis!

[sm0kew33dd]

thankyou sm for this opinion actually, I had also talked to my mom about it and she literally said majority of the things you said lol! but i’ll def take your advice :)

[Oliverlogan263]

Omg girl no problem at all! I'm always here if you need another guy’s perspective. We've all been creeped on before so I totally get the weird vibes. I'm glad your mom also noticed how suspicious it is - moms know best, right?

Definitely let some of the squad know what's up too just in case. Maybe even walk to class with a couple friends for a bit so Creepy McGee doesn't try anything. Ugh I hate that guys feel so entitled, like no means stalk in their brain!

But you seem super smart and savvy, so I'm sure you'll handle it perfectly. Stay confident sis, you've got this! And def keep me posted on what happens if you confront him or do a little stakeout. We'll solve this mystery yet! You're not gonna let some loser ruin your vibe. You got this luv!

[sm0kew33dd]

haha thankyou! I actually do walk with friends majority of the time but being that we can’t really have our phones out we kinda just have to find each other. I lowkey don’t think i’ll confront him just wanna keep him in the past lol, my type last year was kinda weird 💀

[Oliverlogan263]

Girrrl don't even worry about confronting him, you don't owe him any explanations! Good for you walking with friends, safety in numbers for sure. And I feel you, we've all had our cringey "types" in high school lol. But yeah don't feel bad about keeping him in the past where he belongs - out of sight, out of mind! As long as you trust your gut and stay protected, hopefully he'll get the hint. Ugh men, amiright? 😫 But you live and learn, and at least now you know the warning signs for weird behavior. Keep shining and do your thing, forget about what's-his-face the stalker boy! You got so much good stuff ahead, don't waste another thought on some lame who can't take a hint. You're doing great, stay strong girl! We're all here if you need anything else 💜

[strateguy632]

He is trying to talk to you. If you like him meet n talk.

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Kinda sounds like you have a stalker. So congratulations.

He's probably not dangerous, but still, be careful.

[Anonymous]

Everything about this post is weird.

[sm0kew33dd]

lol what? it’s a long story i just decided to keep it short and simple

[Anonymous]

Work it out

[sm0kew33dd]

he’s too awkward i’m just trying to figure out why i’m seeing him everywhere lol, I don't know if it’s a spiritual thing or if i’m delulu

[Opinion Owner]

do the best that you can. I have to go now.